Mystery him self says why waste your skills on 6/7's when you could do it on 9/10's

I've been at this PUA stuff for about 6 months now. Im progressively getting better. Mainly I've been practicing in the field on 9/10's although when I started out, I was approaching 6 and up.

I've had the chance to sleep with at least 4 girls in the last month or so that would have been 6/7's. But knocked them back. One of them I knocked back mainly because I want her as a pivot. BUT should I be knocking back girls or building up my confidence so when I do meet a 10 and play solid game there will be less on the line giving me more chance of closing the deal.

It would be great if we could get a bit a debate on this so I could see both sides of the argument. I have discussed with a friend and he has suggested that it would be better to have a couple of girls ( 6 and up) to build up my confidence but I stand by that I only want to see 9/10's as I am capable of it with a bit more time in the field I'm sure I can pull it off. I do worry about not having enough sex before the 10 and blowing it in bed. But then again if i blow it at least I can just go find another ten and start again.

PLEASE feel welcome to leave your thoughts.

Your mindset is wrong. You shouldn't be treating 7's and 10's differently. Stop rating women. Open all women and men, ignore their looks. Then just be selective with who you fuck. You either want to fuck a woman or you don't.

I suggest you approach all women you feel sexually attracted to. Sometimes there's a 6 I want to bang hard and sometimes not. The same applies to 10's, too.

BTW, your 10 can be my 7 and vice versa.

^^ This some of the best sex and relationships I have had is with women that are average looking but had something else. Go for who ever you are attracted to and you may actually be attracted to something other than her looks. Get experience and move you way up to hotter girls if this is you goal, but remember...there's levels to shit!

^^ This +100. Fucking a stuck-up girl society calls a "10" who just lies there motionless waiting for you to finish and has zero personality is about as horny as Miley Cyrus with a pixie cut. Long-term attraction is about real chemistry and the vibe you have with the girl.

Society thinks Paris Hilton, Rihanna and Sarah Jessica Parker are hot. Fuck what society thinks.

Follow your own boner and trust it 100%.

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This is going to be the title of a successful self-help book one day

LOL, thanks for the inspiration. I think I can make a novel out of it (No kidding)

The only place I use a rating scale is to describe how beautiful/hot a woman was here on the forums, other than that, drop it. Don't rate girls, go for the ones you're attracted to, you'll come up as more honest and she'll like you for that.

Hit on EVERYONE.
"why waste your skills?"
You're not. By talking to everyone you're not only building your skills to pickup but overall social skills.
IMO having great social skills > having great pickup skills. Why? you're more genuine and social skills lead to interacting with more women anyway. NATURALLY

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I agree with this a lot.

If there is a chemistry, go ahead. Open first, have some standards, and see how it goes from there.

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Dude my only advice to you is ,once you have successfully closed 6s and 7s go for the 9s and 10s.

I'm at the stage of my game where I'm confident I can close 6 and 7s. But I want more out of life and I'm challenging myself to talk to the 9s and 10s (the unapproachable beasts).

But at the end of the day you can't be picky if theres only 6 and 7's in the room game the f*** out of them and reap the experience. Nothing to lose everything to gain

Peace bro

When has society ever loved Sarah Jessica Parker?

She's on the front cover of women's magazines and stars in a hit show / movie called "Sex in the City". She is clearly made out to be a sex symbol.