Hey guys,

I'm in my final year at uni, my housemate and I are running things in our social circles. I've thrown a bunch of crazy parties which have gotten a lot girls to be a lot more into me. My issue is that while I'm flirting with so many women, I'm not getting anywhere with it really.

Almost everynight I go out I'll kiss multiple HB's on the lips, but only make out with 1 out of 5 of those girls. (I usually walk in, girls come up to me to say hi, I pick them up by their rear's when they hug me and while i'm holding them up I look them in eyes and tell them to kiss me and they listen). This is getting so frustrasting. After I tell them to kiss me and they listen, I usually tell them again and they do it a second time. From there I feel strange just trying to stick my tongue in her mouth I'd rather have something clever to say that will nudge her to make the move. Any advice?


in general, I need better escalation skills, any particular things you guys recommend for me to check out to hoan that skill?

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The secret behind kissing is NOT telling them to kiss you.

Take things a bit slow and escalate with patience. You can't just turn on a girl by telling her to kiss you.

For the girls I just met, I agree, those are usually just hail marry's.

However, a lot of these girls know who me from around campus. There's usually a foundation of them being attracted to me already. Any ideas on what to say? I was thinking that as soon as I kiss them, I'll put them down, then phase into that old school salsa twirl, push out then pull in dance move and when I pull them in I'll lean them backwards while holding them and start making out with them. thoughts?

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Lol wtf....party til 3 am and see who's left. then go for some tonsil hockey, carry them into ur bedroom, and do work.

You're in college. This is the highest potential amount of ass you will ever have available unless you are a celebrity or own a strip club.

You can't just tell a girl to kiss you, bro. You have to create some kind of intimacy. Even if you have a girlfriend whom you love and vise-versa. Telling her to kiss you, will land you a peck. How have you made it to your final year on college and not figured this out?

Simple, give them the cues for making out.
I usually do some stuff before making out.
First start by casually kissing the lips and slide your fingertips on her neck.
If your head makes it to her neck, kiss her neck gently and she'll get turned on.
Small lip bites and earlobe bites do the trick too, she'll go crazy. Don't forget to use your hands too, keep everything working and she'll make out easily with you.

To be honest, I never failed at making out, it's pretty easy once you start doing it right.