I got this issue with getting girls numbers, having a few texts and however long it takes I end up in the friend zone eventually, I realise how not to end up I'm the friend zone now, but for the girls I'm already in there with is it best to not continue messaging them be blunt with them and eventually that will make them more attracted to you?

Because you get a girls phone number does not mean they are attracted to you. Start getting phone numbers by establishing common ground and building rapport. Ideally, the way you want to get a girls phone number is by having something planned that you and her can do together and using her phone number as a means of communication between when you are meeting. Don't go out and just get as many phone numbers as you can and rely on texting to get you a day two because you are scared of the interaction going dry. Don't be afraid to eject yourself from a conversation instead of asking for a phone number. Girls will give out their phone number to pretty much anyone if you ask for it because 1. they hate the awkward situation of saying no. and 2. they like the validation.... It doesn't mean they like you. Work on practicing solid game and you won't get stuck in the friend zone.

Another tip.... quit fucking texting. Pick up the phone and call her. That way she will be able to hear your voice. Alot of guys tend to get a feeling similar to approach anxiety when it comes to calling a girl because they are worried that she might have forgotten him, might be too busy, might not want to talk to him, etc. You have to realize that if you are talking to a girl (depending on her caliber) she probably has a bunch of different guys texting her. Your goal is to be different and stand out. Most girls realize that a guy will not have the balls to pick up the phone and call her. Just fucking do it and you will notice a HUGE improvement in your closing ratio.

Good luck.

-Majik