Hey guys,

After some serious analysis of my game, I think I know where the problem is. However, I have no idea as how to fix it. Need your help on this one

I can approach fine with confidence, I DHV, kino, neg all that stuff. And I get plenty of IOIs from the girls, so I have no problem in the attraction phase.

However, after I get to know the girl on a more personal level, I feel like they become distant with me. We talk about intimate topics (I avoid the boyfriend stories) and text alot. I generally feel like Im always saying something wrong thats killing the attraction, but the problem is I have no idea what it is.

I always try to stay alpha, but Im afraid I start falling into AFC habits when Im in the comfort phase with her. Then, after a while, she gets mad at me and we never talk. Its not like she suddenly breaks off contact, but rather she tells me in my face or just ignores me

My style is heavily dependent on C/F, and Im sure I do it perfectly. Im a bit of a joker, so Im always making everybody laugh.

Im sick of this. Its happened so many times Ive started to lose count. Why do girls start hating me after I get to know them? Is it something I say?

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Turn off the Cocky/Funny once you have attraction. Don't be a clown for someones entertainment and don't be an asshole.

Lay off the DHV stories once you reach comfort. She wants to know you are a human. You're not Superman. If you tell that many DHV stories, you are going to make her feel worthless. She has to feel like a high value woman. If you start talking about intimate stuff before you have even qualified her, she is going to think you are simply trying to get in her pants. The anti slut defense will turn on.

oh... but make sure you don't DLV in your stories....

Comfort is when you can simply "be yourself"

Thanks alot buddy.

Yea, I think this is where Im having trouble. I just dont know when to stop. Maybe my cockiness is getting the better of me. I better tone it down a few notches.

Cheers mate

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Good things come to those who wait. Greater things come to those who get off their ass and do anything to make it happen