Right so I open a girl she really likes me but every girl I talk to I can't turn on so they really like me and want to be with me and have sex with me but a lot of girls fizzle out as I can't esculate

Can you give me some more details? lol this is such a vague post.... You could be fucking up in a million different places. Opening is easy.......... It seems as if that is all you are doing.

So Basicaly I meet a girl and start convos fine but I can't turn girls on so I end up staying at the same level of attraction then they get bored and fizzle out

Stop firing out so much attraction material. Calibrate the interaction and figure out when it is time to move into comfort building or time to cut the interaction. You can only build attraction so high... Once it's peaked, they get bored and move onto the "next shiny thing"

Transitioning from attraction to comfort is something that will take place pretty quickly. The attraction phase doesn't last very long.

Open
Disqualify
DHV
Qualify
Comfort

All that happens within a few minutes. If you stay in attraction, you will just be another funny guy she talked to.

Thanks for the advise pal, so I should focus on comfort not turning her on

NO NO NO lol you NEED to turn her on and make her horny in order for her to sleep with you. But you can do that more once you reach the comfort phase. Attraction to women is like a balloon.... Blow it up gradually otherwise it will pop. If you stop blowing it up... it will deflate.

Okay so build trust, turn on, comfort, turn on kinda thing

Precisely grasshopper lol now you're getting it