Whenever I hook up with ladies most the time it just happens with pure chance. I'll
Be out meet a chick invite her to hang with my buddies and I have a few drinks and two hours later I'm Gettin it because she's way in the mood or some chick will come
Onto me real strong. But besides that and other stuff ive risked on (first bits of intimacy with future significant others) I have problems telling when it's time to close unless it's some chick I know I already have in the bag emotionally or some chick who's come onto me fast and hard. So what am I doing wrong, or not doing? I got out of a really serious long term relationship about a year and a half ago and I've had to slowly rebuild my game since then and I don't remember this ever really being an issue with women before my ex unless they're straight not interested in me. Help a brother out!

Sex has to do with how you escalate kino. How comfortable she is with your touch. If she isn't comfortable with you touching the outside of her, she is not going to be comfortable with you inside of her.

Start calibrating her reactions as you escalate kino. Create the sexual tension but pull it away too.

And how does escalating and pulling it away work?