I do random approaches in universities and malls. One problem I'm not getting them out as much as I'd like to. maybe 1/7 numbers im able to get out on a date with.

I go up to them complementing them a bit, start a convo to get to know them, then i number close...

I feel like trust issue is one thing or whatever other issues maybe, can anybody give me some tips on how to get girls out more often?

the thing is, girls hear compliments all the time....even ugly girls get compliments all the time now via real life and social media like instagram and twitter


if you do complement her compliment something she spent time on (hair, make up, outfit) and not something she was born with (eyes face body etc) it may work but alot of times it doesn't

thats why i try to start off with something funny or something i know would spark a good conversation....also when you ask questions say it with a smile, so it won't seem like you're interrogating her

compliments will always make a girl day but won't make her stay

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

ooh i see... so what kind of question/compliment/topic do you usually use?

it depends.....if she has on a nice dress say "wow that color looks amazing on you, hey my name is _____"

look pick up lines work but only if they are unique, i once pulled a model by asking "hey do many people think you're a model" "yes" "oh well its just because you're tall"

i said it with a smile and a confident look so she could tell i was just playing and it made her more comfortable...compliments just make her feel better about her self not better about you.

when i do compliment a girl its in a funny unique way

for example i said to a girl working on black Friday "dang everything here is so expensive but i have to say your smile is priceless" and i asked her was it hard working on black friday

put it like this every convo either suppose to leave a girl thinkign you're a charming funny guy or a charming seductive guy

a simply compliment and a convo will leave her thinking oh he's a nice boring guy WHICH NO GIRL WANTS

sorry if this didn't help

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie