I'm at a sticking point guys,

I think subconsciously I am intimidated by girls I actually like.

Several girls that I number closed that I actually liked, and which ended up flaking on me have told me "you come off too strong."

Girls that I do not really like and don't plan on dating become so attracted to me that they will be calling me asking to hangout, and telling me they want to have sex, or will easily agree when I ask them, even if they are virgins, after I crush their shields.

However, I do not know what is wrong with me, my texting/talking with girls I dont like is extremely Alpha Male like, unneedy, sexy, challenging. A latina hb9 once told me "i became attracted to you because you seemed likenyou hated me, like i wasnt good enough for you." Only time I succeeded with an HB9.

However, now I talk to girls I like and don't like with different maneurisms, my standards are low, I only look for the beauty, I think i need to start looking for personality traits in these HB8-10s that way their looks won't phase me and make me seem Beta to them.

I show I am attracted too much to girls I actually like, how do I stop?! Even when i tell myself not to, it still happens, I've been called Creepy amd Annoying by an HB9, when I thought i was doing great.

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When you do the right thing, you will be shocked at the things that will happen in return. When you do the right thing, it always comes back.

my advise is let what you do for the girls you dont care about become your way of treating all women. women love to be challenged. and by showing you care the women in your life are right you come off too strong. a good way to throw them for a loop is try this neg that mystery uses. so what so you have going for you besides you looks. i mean you very beautiful but beauty is common. things not common is a good energy, outlook, and personality. you got 2 out of 3 thats a good start. see what that does? it makes her work. you acknowledged her beauty but at a price she now has to work more to get farther with you and you disqualified her so she doesn't think you want her. (and thats gonna burn her up)


vein

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any man can sweep any woman off her feet. just need the right broom

this is actually the kind of answer i was looking for, a powerful neg preferably by mystery. I remember seeing that one in The GAme but dont remember what page.

thanks bud, btw how old are you?

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When you do the right thing, you will be shocked at the things that will happen in return. When you do the right thing, it always comes back.

What you need to build is an abundance of attraction. Once you get enough girls whose physical attraction is not intimidating to pine for you, you will realize all the needy things you do to girls who do intimidate you.

You are being needy around the hot girls just like the ugly girls are being with you. Since you don't view yourself as attractive you accept the ugly girls as what you deserve, and the hot girls has having something special.

In reality, it takes a long time to get to know someone and if you're coming on too strong in a needy way, its obvious you're rushing things and putting too much pressure on the girl. Pressure causes discomfort. Discomfort is not attractive.

Stop treating the ugly girls like crap. Stop treating the hot girls like they're special. Start treating the girls like they are people.

Try to find the things that make the ugly girls special, and try to find ALL of them in one girl, who is hot.

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Attraction is a choice.
ITS YOUR CHOICE!
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-Ders


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These two points are major in my understanding of what's sticking. Thanks buddy

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When you do the right thing, you will be shocked at the things that will happen in return. When you do the right thing, it always comes back.

im 20 man pm me if u wanna talk more

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any man can sweep any woman off her feet. just need the right broom

Its probably scarcity. Girls we like, we go into scarcity, act needy or behave in a unattractive manner. The girls who behave thar way we don't care to indulge in or not for long.