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I recently got hire as an aerobics instructor during weekends. I been going to this gym before I got hired. I seen this girl always doing cardio and she also works on the front desk. She came and took my class with some of her friends. Last week I asked her what she had planned for the weekend and she said she was going out to a bar, I said we shall all go out together she said that would be fun. I wrote down my number and when I was writing, she said my friends think you are really hot. 3 days later she text me at midnight saying come to some bar. I reply the next day saying we are going this weekend, she said she couldn't go out this weekend and that we should just go today, I agreed and said since your bringing your friends do I need to bring girls or boys or just my self. she didnt reply. then i text her 5 hours later saying so are we going out. she said "ya! are you coming to the barbecue"(the gym had this for the employees) and i said "no im working" then she never reply.
Then this weekend me and my business partner met a girl at a restaurant we began talking to her and made plans to go out that night she said text me when you guys are off work. I text her saying that we were getting of at 9. She reply saying are you guys off now? I still need to get ready. Then something came down and we had to stay till 1o I text her saying something came up we will be leaving at 10. Then no reply. I want to know what im doing wrong? The girl from the gym is someone im very interested in dating while the other girl im not as interested in dating her. I just like to know why they agree to go out and then never reply??? this has never happened to me and its weird that it happened twice in the same week. I want to talk to the one from the gym and maybe take her out on a real date? any advice you guys can give me?
This question has been pondered over a few times on the forum. The link below is to one person who asked. Basically, you have attraction going for you but you need to build and establish more comfort with her. Let her know more about you and who you are...so its not all about your looks.
If she's attracted to you which she was then she'll get or give a number. When she starts thinking about an actual date she realizes you are cute but she doesn't know anything about you. She doesn't know if you could be married or what. She also has no idea what to talk to you about except the context in which she met you, which could be boring. So you need to build comfort and let her get to know you. This way a date is more easily agreed to.
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