not really sure if this is a sticky point but here it is. my nightgame...

mostly i focus on daygame, i like it a lot better. i feel its more natural, and i dont got to compete with any other guys for the 10s, who are super easy to approach during the day. also im in a college enviroment (my first year) and typically i just hit on older girls .coffee shops, chicks sitting outside, class, etc. anything during the daytime. (girls think im older at the daytime also although im only 18.)

i got high standards so im not dtf anyone below an 8. Unless im drunk, but i dont do that anymore. I'll have a beer in my hand at the club.

So when i do go out at night my main goal is to get laid that same night with a 7 or above. and generally that doesnt happen. i havent seen many girls dtf and the thing is, literally the only place to go at night is a few collge bars. and pretty much everyone who goes just gets wayyy too fucked up and comes with their friends who wont let you take their friend home with a stranger. (cockblock and bitchesss)

grindings easy enough, because its PACKEDD. but its WAY TOO LOUD to actually talk to a girl in there, so i have a problem escalating. see during the daytime i can talk about anything, even boring conversation, and just because i approached her during the day the whole time im talking to her shes in shock because that never happens to her. I guess im not a high energy person, so night game is more difficult for me.

as i said earlier, i dont go out at night to get numbers. i can do that plenty easy during the daytime. i got girls numbers from during the day, but they dont like to go out. i seem to like a nice girl. but i dont need help with the girls during the daytime. i just invite them to watch a movie after enough rapport.

All im trying to figure out is how to get laid the same night i go out. any tips or help would be appreciated. Or even how to find girls who just want to fuck during the daytime. and how to tell. because generally it takes me some time with girls during the day. (lunch, rapport, etc along with not seeing them a lot because i cant be too needy so i dont wanna see them too much) i just wanna escalate faster and have more sex. or if i did find a girl who does go out and party how would i go bout fucking her.

would i send her a text something like this: "Hey _____, my friends having this house party tonight, you should come." or "what are you doing tonight? oh cool, me and my friends are going to this bar, you should come."? and how do i deal with dudes hitting on her, can i go talk to other girls when shes there, do i leave her alone to talk to my friends, whats too need, when do i start escalating, etc...

thanks guys

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"would i send her a text something like this: "Hey _____, my friends having this house party tonight, you should come." or "what are you doing tonight? oh cool, me and my friends are going to this bar, you should come?"

^^^Those both seem fine.


and how do i deal with dudes hitting on her

^^^Why deal with it? If she wants you, she'll have you, if you let her. Just be her best option. If any given girl would rather get with some random dude, forget her, plenty more fish in the sea.

can i go talk to other girls when shes there, do i leave her alone to talk to my friends, whats too need,

^^^Stop overthinking this. You can talk to whoever, just keep in mind the girl you're interested in is your focus. If your friends are your friends, they won't try steal her. Too needy is any needy. Look to enrich her life rather than enrich yours through her, and you'll be fine.

when do i start escalating

^^^Whenever you want. Early. But use push/pull and be aware that as horny as she might be for you, society unfairly judges women for their sexuality, so privacy/logistics etc should be on your mind here.