so, im new to the art and i have all the usual nerves with openers and what not, but ive noticed that i Can get to the F-close. and i am usually pretty capable at getting her to think of it as her idea. which is a lot of fun if youve never tried it.

however, once ive gone through all the trouble of picking the girl up, my brain starts a counter attack.

my most recent case of this was in hong kong. i picked up a HB7.5/8 and we wound up back at her place, and then i started with those stupid "guilt" thoughts.
i dont know her, why am i doing this, ect.ect.ect.ect.

how the hell do you get past this?
with complete strangers its a hell of a lot easier, but with some one i care about its another story entirely.

i.e my friends from home, ive been (through SPAM, fb, ect) working my way in, and now theres no doubt when i get home i can fuck atleast one of them.
but now that i know i can, my games gone to shit. ive got cold feet, and i dont know why. im not a virgin, but ive never slept around just for the sake of fucking.

help?!

..and yes, i know how pathetic this sounds, it feels pathetic, but its my sticking point and i need to get through it some how, i just dont know how.

Chump :L

heres what you do, follow my quote that i made.

When in doubt, take your right hand and place it between your legs, and if theres anything there. I SAY MAN THE FUCK UP AND DO IT.

when you feel guilty tell your brain to suck rope. jus fuck the girl and be done with it.

good luck chump :L

Is it possible that your reaction is the result of legitimately not enjoying that type of lifestyle? Sleeping with people for no other reason than because you can isn't for everybody, and there is no PUA commandment that says you have to do it to prove you're not, as the poster above me suggested, a chump.

As the old adage goes, if you don't like something, change it. And if you can't change it, change your attitude.

Your boy,
870

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