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i started talking to her friend and as expected she tried to talk to me again but i gave her over the shoulder responses so i think she got what i was trying to do.
Also she has been wanting me to let her borrow a movie but i thought it would be too much if i asked if she wanted to watch it together since she knows i was trying to get at her. Should I?
sex is a mutal thing man, she either likes you or she doesn't, if she does then the benifits just have to outweigh the risks for her of hanging out with you (she has to just see an appeal in hanging out with you), if she is looking for a movie and you make an offer to watch one with her, then there you go, you have a solid mutual benifit to hanging out with each other and plausible deniability for you to try to hookup with her
you want her thinking sex might go down, but give her an excuse for why you are hanging out that isn't just ''hey want to come over to my house and have sex?''
other then that... it should be a mutual thing, as long as she trusts you and knows you, then chances are her hanging out with you comes down to if she likes you or not, and if she won't hang out with you, then you should try to find a girl that will, or do a better job at attracting this girl