So this is the next issue in my game i have to deal with.

Its been pretty ongoing. Mainly with going out, i can apporach most girls, talk to them and build rapport. I get them laughing can even pull their friends in so i remain the centre of the set before i isolate. But once it comes to that im still just talking, not getting very sexual. My DHV stories just sound like its 'story time' and my qualifying just sounds like im complimenting her. Im escalating Kino the whole time so dont get me wrong there.

The last date i was on is a perfect example of this. HB8 i picked up at the library. We got to talking, and talking and talking. It was total interveiw mode despite how into the convo she seemed. Then again it was a bad choice of venue for building kino. The date ended early, 1 fucking hour!!! felt like shit. And i totally got the vibe that she wanted to go because i wasnt fun and flirty enough.

See, ive read tonnes of shit on attraction, i dont know whether it just went one ear and out the other. What are some good resources, how do i flirt so i dont seem like an AFC with good convo skills?????