So, as I grew up, I too watched love movies. And became in love with beauty and all that. As I failed and failed of getting the girls of my dreams, I slowly woke up and realized that life is the total opposite, I slowly crafted myself, and became that witty bad boy, who has an edge, and usually gets the girl. My biggest strength was always the fact that I just stopped loving girls. Or feeling much for them. But in 2010 I met a girl online, lived in my city. We texted back and forth, I thought nothing of it. She got her boyfriend 2 months after I started talking to her. We still talked, I didn't think much of it. I knew she was pretty. Until this year, I moved back to where she is, (I used to live there) I met her, and now we still text. But I developed feelings for her, and It's making it hard for me to stay focused. How can I turn off my feelings? what can I do? I haven't felt nervous, or waiting for a text for a girl like this in a long time. And for those who want to know, there is a minor attraction between us, but I'm not over thinking it. Whether she likes me or not, I could pottentially not only lose her as someone I could be with, and even a friend if I don't learn to control my feelings. What can I do to stop? I even saw a picture of her kissing her boyfriend and I got really mad, and even barely texted her. I quickly stopped when I realized it...so yeah..

Follow the rule of 3's. If you want to get over 1 specific girl, close 3 others. Put the leg work in and get out there gaming.

It's not a matter of learning how to shut off your feelings towards women, but rather a way of reevaluating how special she really is to you. As humans, we are often fixated on things with little to no explanation as to why. See yourself doing it and stop.

Quality pickup artist love women, each and every one of them. Shutting off your feelings deprives yourself of the human experience.