how do you get over the initial aa, from what i have read its just a case of just go for it but i find myself with it becoming overwhelming and just stumble up. sometimes i do manage to approach but after that again i just don;t have a clue what im going to do and never get anywhere near a n-close never mind a k-close.

any help is much appreciated guys, going out tomorrow night and just trying to get it down before then.

A guy on some other forum recommended a drug named TRAMADOL.

Google it.
Try it.

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Dude...you don't need to use drugs to open, that's easy shit. Plus alkohol can do the job.

Try to open without any drugs, it it will be easier in the future.

I guess it would be easy for a pick-up coach like me to say,"Just open"!!

Believe it or not:you will come to a point later down the road where opening girls at the club is second nature.

Some keys to opening HB's in clubs,or being more social in night venues is to:

1.)Go to the venue earlier before the crowd.That will help you to get comfort in the enviornment.So when others come later on,you would've already been comfortable in the venue.

Or

2.)Just chat up guys also in the club.Ppl make the mistake and only approach HB's or the hottest girls.That's the wrong way to go to stomp out AA.Chat to guys also about random shit for like 20 seconds while ordering drinks.It will have pumped your state and get your verbal wheel flowing.

You can also check out my pick-up blog for more advice.http://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com/

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