so me and my friends can bring girls back to my house on a weekend with ease i have girls over all the time but my huge sticking point is i can't escalate i get nervous
my other friend he gets the girl and I'm stuck just talking to the other one or being bored this happens way to much
anyone got some tips to make this disappear

thanks guys

chances are you will always have a fear of the unknown,

best way to get over this is gain experience doing it,

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you can use chiefs compliance ladder, in the above link, or google vin dicarlo escalation ladder, or find a billion other escalation ladders, just pick a strategy and stick with it, execute the plan until you don't need one and feel comfortable expressing yourself

I suggest something as simple as either, getting close to her yourself, or telling her to come close to you, put your arm around her, if all good so far, go for a kiss,

not trying anything gets you the same results as trying and failing

that last line hit me so much man i really never though about it that way