| Alright buddies.
Background:
So I basically run natural with minor PUA general pointers and at 26 my count is somewhere above 30 and below 50.
I was basically just being myself, fun loving, care free, adventurous, alpha male type and went to a concert with 2 guy friends and a girl they brought. At the concert a ton of former girls were there and came up to me and it became clear the girl I was (we'll call her J) with was interested. However, she was staying with one of my guy friends who I know was being rather mean to her because she was uninterested in him and thought it was a friend trip.
So nothing happened that night, but then my car broke down so we decided to stay at the same hotel the next day. When we arrived it was clear that our friend had just been rejected by the chick and they were fighting. So, I decided to get alcohol and just party while the car was fixed. The four of us partied (it involved copious amounts of snow and liquor) and my one friend passed out and then J came to my room, kiss/make-out/fingering/etc close, and she slept in my bed. She immediately realized how pissed that friend would be, so she left early and just pretended we had never slept together.
So that was followed by a night where I took her out partying with some other friends, we had a great time, go back to her place, and had mind-blowing sex. She invited me back again we had even better sex and then our schedules got nuts so I didn't see her for awhile.
When I did see her, it was with that friend who was interested in her. He spent the night basically cock-blocking while we did copious amounts of all kinds of substances. By the end of the night I had really soured the mood because I was yacked out and frustrated that she wasn't going to sleep with me. It was a bit of a trainwreck.
After that we didn't really talk, there were plans to get together, but she was flaking. I learned she dated a different one of my friends for a bit, but he is a pretty AFC type so it didn't work. He moved away and then I text her again after about 2 months of silence.
Just today she asked me if I was going to an event tomorrow night where original cockblock dude will be (he's no longer good friends with me over that night). I'm going to take this as a sign that she is interested (or why bother).
So, at this event, I would basically only have one or two other guys in my corner, and would be meeting up with her.
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Plan of Action:
Plan is to roll in with dudes other than the guy that will try to cock-block me all night. He will be busy for a lot of the night so I'll have chances to work at DHV and rapport building.
I think the goal here is to build up rapport while keeping high value, avoiding or mitigating cockblocker, and then end the night at her place with a night of crazy sex (I'm confident I rocked it last time which is why she wants more).
Main Qs:
Should I focus more on rapport building / comfort, or should I try to make more jealousy?
Anyone have advice on this or threads or resources or comments on a strategy?
I want to convert her into a regular because she's an 8.5 at least and is an amazing lay. Relationship is out of the question because she seems like too much drama to maintain.
Comments/thoughts?
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