Here are my thoughts about I , and many people know so many girls,but remain stuck in a fairly "meh" position of a thing such as "friendzone".

Great wall of text :

I love pickup and it definitely works in getting the girlfriend.But you know why it is so slow in this learning process? Because the Puas may forgot to tell us a very important thing that we missed and simply can't know unless we may have had a relationship or more,or at least a friend who is good with girls (in my case).

What they have told us is indeed true,especially the part where you don't have to be another person in front of them,but with the girls we have to behave different from friends and a like.Somebody said that you should be the same with everybody ,because you should be yourself.NOT TRUE!! Yes we should be ourselves all the time,but that doesn't mean treat everyone the same way,Hell no!!
With girls we like we have to behave different because we like them and we certainly have to show them , but at the same time,we don't have to behave needy.

It's a thing that works almost all the time , with guys and something that apparently we are forced to do in order to skip friendship zone.

It's not a secret,nor a genius technique,nor a PUA technique.

It's called : ..... Flirting

Yep that's what they call it.Simple right? So what's flirting?

Well it is an act that does the EXACT THING that we want to with girls we like.It means showing that we like the girl but it's not being needy.It doesn't have to be compliments.

In other words,the key success to attracting women,is very simple.It's knowing how to flirt,and apparently , it's not as hard as it seems to be.Lol it is very easy,and probably if you had the luck in being in a relationship , you probably already done it before.It's a simple gesture and isn't uncommon at all.

It is very alpha male like , because not many guys do this , with girls they like ,and are not in a relationship.

Well how did I noticed that? Well by observing an alpha male/natural ofcourse.
What did he do? Well he flirt , but flirting might be different from male to male , but in concept it does the same thing(it's a gesture appart from kissing and having sex that shows usually male attraction toward the girl he likes,and it is subtle...for girls).

We were in a bus , and he went to a girl, a friend of mine,and did what I did not try do ever with a girl.(I realize it was flirt).

What he did was , he just went close to the girl and talked , with a very , very low voice.And also with a smile.Well , the thing about this I realized is that talking at a very low volume, seeks intimacy against other around , and at the same time,it gets both people more closer to each other (so they can hear what they say obviously).
Creating intimacy with a girl just screams out loud that to her that you are creating an intimate relationship,which over the course,can easily became into a relationship.It's a form of flirting because I know there are many others.but this is what he did.

And you also know what? I always notice that people in a relationship when they talk about themselves,usually talk in a very low volume voice also.It is an intimate relationship.

So in other words,a way you can easily skip friend zone,is creating an intimate relationship,with her by this form of flirting(in other words speaking in a low voice , usually a smile added,something funny or maybe any subject that is interesting to both.

In short : A form of flirt by going to the girl you like , and speaking in a low volume voiced,so that , you give her the thought that you have an intimate conversation which creates intimate relationship.


P.S I never had a gf , but I never tried this.And this may be my answer.All I wrote here is what I apparently learned.

Also , for notice : Girls that are in a strong relationship,can not be flirted with.You also notice by the frequent messages she receives or that she will tell you .