I am aware of the dangers of dancing monkey syndrome. So i have learned to joke, then go serious or normal for a moment, then joke, serious/normal back and forth. But being funny a lot can come of carrying insincerity, a way to hide the real you. So how does one balance the real you and the jokster and creating a lot of attraction out of that combo?

I will tell you that my favorite and most effective seductions occur when my playful jokester side is easily available to my mind. It moves me quicker through the whole process and into bed within hours, 24 hours or D1.Its almost like a shock and awe. But some chicks dont respond; they laugh, they get it, but they aint buying.

what do you all think of all this?

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It's not the same to make her laugh than being funny, most guys try too hard to be funny and if it's something that doesn't go with your personality you are going to fail. Nobody needs to be funny to seduce a woman, in fact it's something that I wouldn't recommend until you know her better since there are many chances that you both have a different sense of humour

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Also, people use humor as a way to diffuse sexual tension.. which is bad. Humor, when used correctly in pick-up, should be used to flirt (i.e. to tease her or to tell entertaining stories that revolve around sexual topics).

-Wolf

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Thanks but Im talking about riff/improv humor for the sake of amusing myself and it does help me break ice better