Here's a light texting session I had with this massage girl who I met at a poker club. I just want to get a general opinion on whether you guys think I sound AFC, where I could have added some C&F / attraction spikes...and how I could have approached the response side of things more flamboyantly (or is it good how it is)....i always doubt that my text game is up to scratch, so I would really appreciate any feedback and response alterations you might have, so i can get a rough idea of how I should be approaching my responses. I also noticed that my responses are a lot more lengthier than her's...i dont want to be the over investor in these situations, so if you could suggest ways that i could make my texts shorter but crammed with a ton of value i would really appreciate it guys. thanks.

I read a status she posted about some dude in a wheelchair who clearly had feet but still proceeded to act disabled and beg her for money which she ended up giving to him, here's what I opened her with:

ME: rofl...that status is freakin funny.
HER: props for forking out some cash though.

HER: lol cheers.
HER: it was so funny.

ME: a kids gotta do what a kids gotta do to make a living...how else is he gonna buy ice cream and sweets

HER: innit

ME: did you end up winning the crown for ibiza angels (her massage company) best masseuse or did someone beat you to it?
ME: cause I gotta say, Abi (another massage girl the two of us know) sure puts up a fight for that spot...her massages are ace .

HER: you've never had one...so you cant judge.

ME: well she definitely set the bar high, i bet her massage kicks your massage in the butt.

HER: maybe it does...she's lovely.

ME: im glad you agree.
ill get a massage off you when you touchdown next...10 pound for 40minutes, right? (its actually 10 pound for 10minutes, which she knows im already fully aware of...so i tried to over exaggerate and bring a little teasing to the interaction)

HER: yeah...thailands great like that.

ME: thailand? try India, there rates will send you giddy.

HER: i lived there ..i know.

ME: no way...did you learn how to cook a mean curry? cause my belly's screaming abuse at me right now...
ME: ill give you the ingredients, you do the cooking. deal?

HER: deal...although...i dont need your help

ME: great, the kitchens all your's...as long as the food rocks my world im a happy bunny.
ME: i would kill for a curry right now...
ME: might have to get my hands dirty and whip one up myself.

HER: go for it

I didnt know what to respond back to her at this point so I just left it at that. what could I have changed?

Shes not interested.

She became pretty defensive when you said that her friend is better at massages. It came across as if you were trying to get a rise/reaction out of her... dlv/needy

You are right in thinking you are putting in more effort than her.. she is responding to be nice or to get you to keep buying massages.

To improve you have to bait her into asking you questions about something interesting. She doesn't want to talk about her job. Give her fantasy, give her excitement.

Also, "text game" is more work/risk than it has reward. People can forget about or ignore texts.. Be the guy that calls and you'll have a much greater impact. It is becoming increasingly rare that men actually call women to see them. I can't tell you how many times i've heard a woman say I can't believe you actually CALLED.

I can tell that you can do a lot better than that. I think it's awesome that you would post something like this though because it is the only way to improve.. trying new things!!!!

cheers dude!

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Appreciate the response pal,

Ill definitely keep this locked up in my mind. Im sure if i implement this and tweak a fue other weak spots my results will hit the roof...thanks