Bringing up something that your self conscious before sex



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 11 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Tools & Techniques of Game: Meeting, Attracting and Seducing Women » Sticking Points


Forum rules


A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

A Sticking Point is:
Quote:
I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
Quote:
I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
IT IS AGAINST THIS BOARD'S RULES TO POST THREADS ABOUT JUST ONE GIRL
If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.



Author Message
PostPosted: Fri Jan 27, 2012 7:23 am 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast

Joined: Sat Oct 08, 2011 6:05 pm
Posts: 52
Location: Fucking Shitty Wyoming
Honestly this isnt too much of a sticking point as i've had sex, but i brought it up just before sex and it caused an awkward moment. I had a deformed sternum that I've had surgery on. it that made it not stick out so much. Its still somewhat noticeable, more so because of the 2 inch scar in the middle of my chest.

I would rather bring it up earlier in the night, but I dont know when and how to word it.

Any ideas?


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Fri Jan 27, 2012 8:09 am 
Offline
Member of MPUA Forum

Joined: Mon Jan 16, 2012 6:29 am
Posts: 130
What has happened when you didn't bring it up? It seems to me that the earlier you bring it up, the faster it becomes a problem. Just avoid certain positions if you're self-conscious about your chest. I doubt very much that the girl will care at all when you're pounding her doggy style.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Fri Jan 27, 2012 8:40 am 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast

Joined: Sat Oct 08, 2011 6:05 pm
Posts: 52
Location: Fucking Shitty Wyoming
I've never tried that, that is a good point though. Although i've havent brought it up before the clothes started coming off either. I'm new to this stuff, and only had 2 successful lays since i started. So i'm still inexperienced.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Fri Jan 27, 2012 8:55 am 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast

Joined: Sat Apr 02, 2011 1:32 am
Posts: 94
Yahoo Messenger: sd_surfer619@yahoo.com
Location: So Cal.
I know the feeling of being self conscious. i have a a 6 inch scar on the left side of my pelves and i have a 6 inch Y shaped scar on my face. and i can honestly tell you if the girl is sleeping with you its cause she wants you not cause what "flaws" you might have.

girls dig scars.

just dont say anything unless she asks and when she does just tell a brief reason why you have it.

hope this helps


Top
   
PostPosted: Sun Jan 29, 2012 8:12 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast

Joined: Sun Jan 22, 2012 3:02 pm
Posts: 33
Location: Essex, England
Don't worry too much about it. Most people are self conscious about their bodies for one reason or another. Especially women. Chances are that she's wondering how you'll react once she starts taking her clothes off. Even if she's really hot, she probably thinks one of her tits are slightly saggy or something. It's a vulnerable moment for everyone. You'll get more comfortable in your own skin as you get older, and you'll get more comfortable getting naked with another person as you do it more. So do it lots! Lots and lots of practice and you'll give less of a fuck about that lump in your chest.

_________________
When the going gets weird, the the weird turn pro. - HS Thompson.

Proud member of Project essex. Our exciting new UK based Sarging troup based in Essex. Check us out... http://projectessex.forumer.com


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 5 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link