Sup guys

It has happened way to many times now, and I cant understand what I am doing wrong here.

I'm not home alone quite often, so when I do get the chance I'm home alone, I invite over a girl which we then get it on, we get into my bed but almost never get to f-close the deal.

Usually, I cant invite a girl over for the second time, because it takes way to long for me to be home alone again and still keep in contact with the same girl.

Usually I whisper what I'd do to her, caress, kiss. Later when were in my bed I take of my shirt and go on, which then I let her give me a massage then I give the girl a massage, but I never get further then just taking off the shirts.

this has happened way to many times and I just cant understand what I'm doing wrong.

HALP please.

This has happened to me a few times before. what i did to change this was i wouldnt ask if i can take things of i just did them. and if they stopped me i would be like okay and start making out and dry humping and just moving my hands all over her body and make her feel very very sensual. then i would try again but i would just distract her. a girls mind can think of multiple things at once but they cant control what they want. even if its what they think they dont want. women love sex just like we do.

i am gonna give you a situation that is kinda similar:

So in March i was talking to this girl(HB8). we have hooked up and what not while drunk but doing things drunk and sober are totally different. anyways i invite her to my house to take a shower, she says she doesnt feel comfortable with that, i say okay well how about you come over and shower with me but we will be wearing bathing suits(lame i know but i had no intentions of keeping them on) so she said ok. she comes over and we get in the shower and we start making out and i am moving my hands alot up and down her back. so i grab the string and just pull it till the top dropped off and she was like how did you do that i told her magic with a smirk. so we start making out again and i start doing the same thing with my hands but this time i also included her arse and i just pull the string again and then the bottoms fall off. again she is like you suck i am like dont lie you know you want me smirking again. so then i say you know what i am sorry its not fair anymore your naked and i have clothes on so why do you just take my shorts of and she does and we end up having intercourse.

moral of the story girls will follow your lead just be dominate and respectful.

Use your hands and kisses as a distraction

Let me know if this helps

since your used to the massage thing it will probly be easy to work from there i use this technique all the time and getting her undressed is fairly simple taking your shirt off isnt necessarily but it doesnt really matter much i at least leave my shorts to take ok last when i massage i always use oil or lotion it doesnt really matter i at least use 1 of the 2 bcause they give u a reason to have contact with her skin (water based oils are better bc they can b used as lubricant and wont brake dwn condoms) so intially b4 i start i either tell her "take your shirt off so i can get to your back" or after she lays dwn " this shirts totally gonna be in my way we'll take your arms outta your sleaves and put it over your shoulders so you dnt have to take it off. next i start to rub from her lower back and go up. at first u can rub under her bra strap and actt as if u just decided that tha method is uncomfortable so u unhook her bra strap or better done with one hand rubbing he shoulders and neck while the other unhooks her bra. she wont notice or care if anything shes gona be happy your so smooth. so u continue the massage make sure you massage her arms and neck respectively bc when framed as a full body massage you will get alot farther along. as u rub her back when wrking from the top to the bottom u also want to include her ass the first time rubb outside her pants or shorts the by the second tim you get dwn there flip the top edge of her pants dwn along with her underwear rubb that far lower part of her back and the flip them back up. rub her ass again then go back to her back now u want to start getting closr to her vagina so we start massaging her legs when we come down this time all while outside of the pants most of the oil is probly off your hands now so u wont get any on her jeans rub her legs all the way dwn to her ankles when your passing her ass going dwn and cumming back up u want to rubb her inner thighs and slightly brush her vagina with the side of your finger lightly enough so it wont be called out and on the way back up her legs give the area a little more attention than you did b4. remeber the goal here is to escalate so 2 steps foward one step back rub her ass up her back neck shoulders arms coming back dow the last step can be repeated twice but now we want her pants outa sight outa mind so u can ask her to unbuckle them to remove them so u can get to her legs or with sweats or pajamas simply pul the top half to her knee and the bottom half up to her knee proceed masaging her legs her pants are out of the way enough for now but to get the off which is preferred say ther in your way wlie at her knees and she will remove them or simply slide them off now shes ass naked ass u need her to be but u dnt wanna stop 4 her to just put her clothes back on rub all the way dwn her legs on the way up inner thighs and light brushing against her vagina head back up repeat the cycle each time giving her vagina a little more attention by the third time around u shld be rubing it from her underwear and ready to start fingering her from behind. *u dont want the massage to be dull so use differnts strokes and parts of your hands also i didnt mention rubbing her breast but its good to increase the escalation just rub the sides of them as u rub her upper back u can start doing this after u flip dwn the edge of her pants i hope this helps bro. gd luck

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I'm confused.. why can't you have a girl over when your family is home? Are you married? Or in high school? Why can't you just go over to the girl's place to have sex?

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I'm asian, which makes my parents only want me to take a asian girl home I'm going to marry, also I'm only 16 yo and it would be just awkward with my parents. So pure out of respect I dont take girls to my place when my parents are home.

I usually dont go to a girls place because I find it hard to arrange to meet up at her place.

I find it hard to believe you were in a bed with a girl and could not close her.

kino, escalation, massage, sweet talk, come on man....

It would be pathetic for someone to post something like this on a site to get reconition.

My game rock hard, but I never actually get to close, I have reflected myself a lot and looked at every flaw I made in bed. I just think I need to do overdo some things for example the massage or think of another way to get her out of her clothes. Usually my massaging doesnt take too long.

I always did the same thing with different girls and I only managed to close 1 of them.