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i dont understand phone game its my biggest sticking point and has been forever. When i'm in person with a girl i always seem to get great results, i flirt with them and they always flirt back. This year i have gotten more phone numbers then any other year in my life. But everyone knows that phone number isnt going to get my dick wet! Girls love to flirt with me, they always end up showing me tons of IoI's and if i talk to a girl for more than 5-10 mins i almost always get her number but, when i text them i often get no reply or they just stop texting me back after a while. its so frustrating because i can hardly set up day 2's

questions lets get down to the specifics
1) how often should i text a girl first?

2)should i even text girls or should i go straight to the phone?

3)are their certain do's and don'ts to phone/text game?

any advice would be greatly appreciated , thank you

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1 and 2) It's preferable to text a girl a day after the day you met them. or if you feel up to it, call her sometime in the evening between 9-10pm where she'll be home, and relaxing.

With texting, when you get her first response, dont answer back immediately, wait about 2 hours to show that you're not needy and have other things going on in your life. also it would probably take her time to text back because she has other things going on. but you may find that if she's enjoying the texting, you'll see that the time difference between text gradually decreases because she's attracted to you and enjoying the texting.

3) Do: text as though you are in person with the flirting, it's no different. Ask open-ended questions so that you have more information to work with to your advantage e.g. "What have you been up to?" and try to relate to it. when sending the first text, try to remember something in the interaction that you teased her about and use it as a nickname when writing the first text e.g. Hey Ms Hot heels, when she recognizes this, she'll be in that same emotional configuration as when you were with her in person and be in that positive emotional state. put your first name at the end of the text instead of her having to ask your name again.

Dont: ask closed-ended question as she wont say much and it would be difficult to extend the interaction. dont ask things e.g.g "do you remember me, we met at blah blah blah", this looks really bad.

Instead of ASKING her out, you OFFER her out. major difference between the two. you making her an offer to go somewhere shows that you are the one in charge and you have the upper hand. whereas if you ask her, then she's the one in charge and makes the decisions.

You can say something like "Let's meet up for a drink sometime. How about me meet at LOCATION at TIME on DAY." this sounds more dominant, and commanding. can you see that in this phrase you dont wait for her to agree yet, but you assume that she likes you and definitely going to meet up which is better than being unsure and completely reliant on her call. this is basically the same as a business proposition. you make it look good, irresistible, and as they say in the godfather "i'll make you an offer you can't refuse" lol.

hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude

The thing about getting numbers, is that it actually is a numbers game. For every 10 numbers you get you may only get 5 or 6 that respond, and maybe only a couple of those will lead anywhere.

That being said, the way you get her number is very important. If your game isnt working on her, then she may just be giving her number (or a fake number) to avoid awkwardness. Its far easier for a girl to avoid a text or a call than to deal with some guy they rejected in person.

That being said, if you are doing well in your interactions then it is just about playing the percentages.