Most of the time girls I like don't reply so I feel like I have to be extra careful and I always use Hey to start of my txts and it's annoying me because it's getting old. Anything else comes across as try hard or too cool.

what's up bro


I always say its not always the text message its what you done prior to getting the number that can cause a girl not to respond to your txt. However in saying that yes a bad text can cause a girl not to respond its hard to say whats the perfect text cause it all depends on so many factors and obviously the type of women your trying to pursue.

Try some of these text to get a response

I just made you look at your phone.. looks like I got your ass in check.

hows my little brat doing

Don't just sit there get your ass down the gym girl work it baby..

your never quess what happend to me today...

did you get my sext I sent you?

I, for one, would not recommend sending those texts, especially about going to the gym. To me, it's degrading and out of line.

The biggest problem people face when texting is sending the actual text in the first place. What's the point? You went out, met a girl, and got her number. THAT SHOULD BE YOUR MINDSET!!!

Let her come to you. When you get her number, call or text her right then so she has yours, and Go Find Ten Other Women. Aquire an abundance of women and pick which one you want. Stop chasing the one you met last night.

On another note, one out of a hundred or so (or less) women you meet out in the social scene will qualify for a day2. Make it a Monday-Wednesday night casual get-together and state your intent. That should be your reason for getting her number in the first place.

Making out at the bar doesn't mean you should get her number, unless you want to be polite, let alone give her a call. If there's something you both connected on in conversation, like that new cafe you both haven't been to, or the Mexican restaurant you both love, give her a call.

Maybe you don't feel like making anything tonight and you decided you'd rather go out at the last minute.

Leave Thursday-Saturday for bro-time. Early weekdays are for meetups, so you both have something to chat about when you're pre-gaming on Friday. When she's drunk on the weekend, she'll hit you up if your day2 went well.

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