Salve everyone. I need an advice with this girl..i've been in love with her for two years but she never actually cared or at least that's what i think. we were friends but was a friendship more like one-sided but she always clamed that we are friends. so when i told her my greatest mistake was that i told her through IM's and then i some sort of continued. then her friend told me someday that she has someone after she wanted to help me with her so i let her go when i finded out. the school began and i began to hang out with other girls but one day i heard that this girl and her friend began to talk about me things like "he wants every girl in this school, he is not serious" and i was like...what the fuck? but i let it that way until one day when i decided to talk to her again because even tough i still have feelings for her i didin't want not to talk each other because of this. so i begin to talk to her just to find out that she was talking on my back with her friend about how "she cannot get rid of me" and i can bet she could if she wanted to. so a few days ago i began to treat her like she's worthless. i don't know why she has such an influence on me, so now i'm in a stage where i belive that she is somehow upset on me and i can't find a way to talk with her and make this clear because i belive it would be strange to go straight to her and tell her "i need to talk to you. what's happening?". has anyone any idea?