How do you guys stay in frame? My natural frame is playful and fun (plus fairly dominant), and this works well with interactions with most people. When I see a girl I'm interested theres only a slight shift to start translating this into flirtation and escalation.

Even if I start out like this and things are going well, I find as I'm hanging out with these girls I find my new frame slipping back to my natural one. Kino continues (as thats just who I am) and we end up building raport, but its more of a friendship kind of thing. I guess I get carried away getting to know people and just having fun and I forget to focus on escalating things.

So how do you guys manage to keep focused? Some of you I am sure, will tell me that I need to be in frame all the time, but how do you manage to do this?

it sounds like you stay in a social frame which is good in the beginning but you need to make a shift to an intimate frame by building sexual tension, after establishing the social frame you seriously need to act as if you and your target are lovers. for example after I tease my target(lets pretend im teasing her about being nerdy), after i tease her ill be like dont worry girl i know allota guys dont like shy chicks but ill treat you good, give her a side arm hug, shift to a next thread. this is my style dont know if itll work for you but when you say shit like that youre changing frames

Some good advice there, thanks man.