Alright lads, met this girl last month through a friend. Been slyly gaming her (well i thought i was) the past few weeks. I've had the following IOI's; Readiness for touchy feely stuff like cuddling up on sofa, compliments, extreme playfulness, touching my hands and face a lot, acquiring my number off my mate and texting me first.

So i've been trying to text game her and i've been getting some decent flirty responses. She was getting pretty sexual in her texts as well, but not directly towards me. The last time i saw her was at her flat. I stayed there for a good few hours. We hung out and watched TV and played videogames with the usual flirty banter we have. I eventually had to leave to meet a friend.

Im MAD at myself for not trying to kiss her at the door because since then, she referenced me in a text as "my friend". In fact im MAD at myself that i didnt try to kiss her much earlier in the month. What was I thinking??

So now i guess im (newly) in the friendzone. Im not at all depserate for this girl because i have several others in my life at the moment, but was wondering if you guys have any tips on how to score a kiss off of her, cos i think once i do she will want more. Im currently freezing her out, deleted her number and everything. I feel like i could maybe save this. Any thoughts?

If you truly are in the friend zone, you need to make a drastic action, straight away. Tell her how hot yo think she is and that you visualize fucking her in a number of positions daily. Say because of this it's hard for you to continue being her friend, and you could only continue talking to her if the relationship was more sexual.

Then break off all contact until she's ready to talk to you again, knowing that you're 'sexual' in her eyes. When you do recontact her, be direct, don't hesitate with ANY physical action.

i have the same problem. it sucks