I brought up something about family when talking with a girl. and she told me she didn't have a father when i asked a question about him. How would you apologize for bringing it up or should one apologize at all? We're texting. I don't completely believe in not apologizing, that's just being inhuman and a dick. If one does something really wrong, and i'm not talking about bringing up the girls father, i mean something really messed up, a guy should definitely apologize for it. Pride: the root to all evil

You didn't do anything wrong, why would you apologize? Don't default to supplicating behavior, its inherently unattractive.

i mean i dont have to apologize. But i could say "Shouldn't have brought it up"

why were you supposed to assume she didn't have a dad when you asked here "didn't your dad teach you better manners" or "you've been a bad girl, i'm gonna tell your dad"

I assume that's how it came up?

Dont apologize for assuming the normal, default situation. Sounds like shes giving you a shit test or making you feel weird. Thats on her, not you.

"I shouldn't have brought it up" is an apology, you didnt do anythign wrong by bringing it up dude, stop apologizing.

You can say "oh in that case this is awkward" or "well lets try again.."
that's probably superfluous for me, but I still see no reason to be apologetic. I hope you are not in the habit of apologizing to girls all the time?

Detox, spot on.

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nah i never apologize to girls. only when I did something that if it were done to me, i would expect an apology. Like insulting a girl (not negging) and she didn't do anything to me, that's when i apologize. or taking something from her that isn't mine. I go with the game for sooo long, but when I hit a stop, i must go back to being human. I believe that's the righteous thing to do.

I think thou protests too much

lol you're funny bruh