I really hate it when a girl is looking for your approval and chasing you, but after a while she's ignoring your texts, raaaarely initiate conversations ect...
It's obvious that i turned her off, but how?when? It sucks when things get messed up and you don't know shit how it happened or why!
let's take some examples:
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met at a party, dance, no #C.
accidently met at facebook.
#C and asked out twice, she flaked (No comfort)
still initiating conversations, sending IOI's
got her on phone for 3 hours, yup... building some comfort...
after 2 days i sent her a text "Stop thinking about me that much, you need to study and pass your exams
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No replies till now (48h), saw her online but she didn't initiate conversation.
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saw her in college, added her on facebook, teasing + neg and #C.
called her twice and she asked me out but cancels after then.
no comfort built yet so i try to build some but her attraction is way lower then before, contact initiation ratio 50:50 and i stop initiating contact after 2 none answered calls
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Met in a revolution (Tunisian Jasmin REvolution), proximity alert and kino, i initiate conversation and #C, we went out one time, everything is cool, but after sometime she's avoiding me! why? i don't know!!
What happened? I don't know!! it seems each time i try to build comfort with a girl i get LJBF, and when i don't, i get flakes. even calibrating all this is not working, i mean i'm really funny and sometimes when i'm the right mood and acting myself i use to say silly things and silly immature funny comments sometimes. Is being playfully immature is a turn off? or or am i being too cocky?
I got to say i'm not afraid to lose any girl's interest, i used to be needy but i'm not anymore, but i HATE IT when it goes wrong and i don't know what's my fault. it's obviously my fault because it happens to me EVERY SINGLE TIME.
I keep 50:50 contact initiating ration, but i noticed that the 5 last contacts was initiated by me and wasn't appearing needy nor did she looked annoyed by it, but when i tried not to initiate conversation, she never does, and all past targets didn't either. Do i need to let go the 50:50 contact initiating thing and just initiate contact when i feel like it and not feeling needy or seeking approval? am i looking too disinterested if i don't initiate contact because i'm afraid of appearing needy? or am i just over thinking and just need to forget about girls not initiating contact, but it still happens!
Please give me some pointers here, i'm starting to give up!! it sucks! i can't improve my game and know my mistakes! Help!
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