Hey Fellas

Let me give you guys a bit of a background to explain my sticking point. I usually game HB's around the ages of 20-30. I'm just starting my 30's and never had a girlfriend & troubles looking for IOI's in women. I can open & attract but making it to seduction is always a sticky point for me.

Now at my job my co-workers and I workout everyday for lunch. There is this spicy Latina MILF who never talked to any one. One day I opened her and friend at the gym and now she's into our little group.

She's married with one kid and works out twice a day having an amazing body. I don't know her age but I'd have to guess early 40's with a delicious booty.

Lately we small talk because I avoid coming off as needy but when we talk I can see in her eyes she would totally be down to sleep with me.

One co-worker of mine is immature and in better physical condition than I am. When we all workout he tries to steel the show and show off his muscles & joke around.

My issue is to get her more sexually aroused and open to fool around while being the better man at the gym.

Any tips, advice or words of wisdom would be beneficial to my cause.

I don't care what her eyes are telling you she wants to do. Have some respect for yourself and for her. Plenty of single women out ther that'd be happy to have sex with you. Respect the ring... find someone else.

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If a woman is in a relationship and they feel their relationship is getting dull or needs excitement in their life, why not be the guy there to supply it.

I'm not looking for anything serious here and I'm put it out there so she knows that I'm interested with teasing and flirting.

Her martial status is all on her. If she was a girl with a boyfriend similar rules apply. From what I can tell she has this class about her with sexy grace. When she enters a room all the men know it. We go to the same gym flirting and joking during lunch soon after.

My sticking point is to increase the arousal without scaring her away to the possibility to fool around. For all I know she could divorce her husband in a month from now and we could have the freedom to do anything we want.

Then wait a month from now and see if she is divorced...and at which time go for it.

Typically, what happens with divorce is the man at home is not satisfying certain physical and emotional needs but he is satisfying some of them. This can certainly happen over the course of a relationship that someone gets lazy in one way or another.

The woman typically goes forth to find someone to fill the other needs with outside of the relationship. Any many cases this does lead to divorce or break ups. The woman persues the relationship with the new man while still married only to find out he doesn't fill "all" her needs either... (Cause her husband was filling the others) she leaves him and moves on in life. This scenario has played out countless times. I've spoken to enough marriage counselors, psychologists, and psychiatrists to tell you this is a very true thing.

As far as being the other guy. If you don't have respect for yourself and respect for her marriage then so be it. I'm not going to sit here and change you mind cause I'd be wasting my time and energy.

I personally don't have a problem meeting and attracting women so if someone is married or has a boyfriend, I respect their decision, and I move on to someone else. I have a certain amount of respect for myself, and how I run my game. As well I have a little thing called integrity. Just as I wouldn't want someone going after my wife durrent difficult times in our relationship I'm not going after theirs. Just a code of honor if you will.

In short cause I'm not going to try to change your mind I will do something meaningful and useful. I will pray for you sir.

Best of luck,

Jon aka JSmooth

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