So I get told a lot by different people I'm weird. I see lots of people on here saying things that are just as weird as things I say, yet have not heard of anyone being labled by a girl as too eccentric. This makes me confused.

Any suggestions? Maybe this is nonverbal? People tell me they can't tell when I'm joking, so I may come across too serious(?).

I just know I've dropped some openers on girls, and when I say something even slightly observational, I get looked at like they have no clue what I mean.

You are very self-consicous! this will make you look across as weird. why? because you're always in your head "did i just said something stupid" "hope they don't see me as weird" and that kind of thinking.

you, my friend, come across as weird because you focus on not appearing weird and finding something cool to say instead of focusing in the moment and enjoy it. Yea i know how hard it is, but your problem is your bodylangage but the cause of this problem is your mindset and thinking, very poor innergame.

however, improving your innergame is simple. just repeat a lie enough to become a truth. you have some "limiting beliefs" wich are not real, but to your mind, they are real. so if you say "i'm the coolest person in this room" your mind may perceive it as a lie. remember, YOU ARE OKAY JUST THE WAY YOU ARE.focusing on your flaws , which never limit your sucess you will limit it just by thinking about it, Vin DiCarlo said in his book The Code of Attraction "the only way to stop a leak is by fixing it, but to fix a leak in your mind you need to act as if it never existed and eventually it will disappear by time" something like that. you're not diffrent then any other PUA, they just have a diffrent mindset and some experience. stick it to your brain!

And don't try too hard, have high-energy when talking, alwaaaaaays smiling, not smiling at all. you take life too seriously, this is just your mindset, and you can change it.

Read my journal, it will help you : seductmes-journal-part1-innergame-vt119 ... highlight=

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Golden Rules i learned:
1- If you complement do it a serious way.
2- If a conversation starts with a low vibe and seems not getting anywhere, be direct but not on an emotional level.