Fellow members, I honestly think this is the only issue I have when it comes to girls. My emotional "unstableness" seems to always draw them away. So I'm going to give some background information, any suggestions would be appreciated.

I've only been in one serious relationship. I was really in love with her. I honestly thought I'd spend the rest of my life with her but I lost her to cancer.

And ever since I've had a hard time dealing with my emotions and it's ruining my game. And now I feel like it's necessary for me to feed off love and support to live a happy life. I feel like shit without it.

Why did I provide this background information? Because the same thing keeps fucking happening to me. OVER AND OVER.

I do everything so perfectly, I get her so interested in me, she gets so drawn to me that she texts me fucking non-stop, and she feels like she has the need to talk to me all the time. My texting game is up to a decent level. But then, girls tend to do this retarded thing, they go all in, they make you have feelings for them then they leave you out in the cold. IT DRIVES ME CRAZY. Why, because they show me that they can give me the love and support I need, then they take it away from me.

That's like taking a toy from a baby, not fucking cool. So I start acting weird, and I end up blowing it.

What would you guys do?

I don't expect you all to relate, and I don't usually come out with my feelings like that, so I'd appreciate it if you guys be respectful.

Your priorities in life should be like this:

1) Work/Career
2) Hobbies
3) Women.

Do this it will solve your problem. May take years. Get over the fact that you "need" love to survive. You don't.

You're right.

My priorities are usually:

1- My studies (I'm still in university)
2- Music (I'm a musician)
3- Family and friends.

But the problem is every time someone comes in my life, my priorities get messed up.

But you're right, thank you for your advice