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Hi guys,
New to this forum and just starting off on my path to PUA glory
Anyway when I'm at clubs I like to hang around smoking area/bar etc where I can talk to girls and open sets. Problems that I run into is that either the music is too loud or the girls are just too drunk or disinterested.
For example last night I opened a 2 set with HB7 and HB9 by asking 'is it cheating when a girl, who has a boyfriend, kisses another guy?' the girls just looked bewildered and just walked away half way through the convo. I thought maybe it's because they are too drunk or maybe because I had a beta male with me.
I've been told by my female friends that I'm a good looking guy (not trying to boast here) and I can keep a convo going so should I try and hang around with other high value males to increase social proof? or is it easier to open sets alone?
Plus what can I do to improve club games? any resources that you can direct me to...
thx in advance.
You need to learn to talk louder and project your voice. I'll tell you a little secret about night game. The louder the club the hotter the women typically are. It's a very interesting phenomenon and it's like the women use that to shield themselves from being hit on. You need to learn to do non verbal openers if its way too loud and project your voice better, not yell, just speak from the diaphram.
Don't hang around other men... I don't care how cool they are the more you hang around other guys in the venue when you go approach someone and come back to the guys after the attempted pick up it's very obvious what's going on. I'd rather find women to hang out with or go alone!
To increase your social proof you really need to be talking to everyone there that seems to matter and everyone in general. Talk to the bartenders, bouncers, shot girls, various sets of guys, girls, mixed sets, EVERYONE! You become that guy who is just having a good night and chatting up everyone you meet. When you do that girls can't help but notice you...and furthermore can't accuse you of just hitting on them cause you're talking to everyone!
Resources...
AFC Adam
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wU1-PoegBtk
Richard La Ruina "Gambler" -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE