Hey guys! I'm brand new here and I've been trying to become more social but there are just several girls (and people even) that I find myself not wanting to open. My main goal is to first just put myself out there to add to my social proof. At the stage I'm at I feel like i should be opening every set i see just for the sake of practice even and it's not that I can't open. When I WANT to I can open really well I just get this feeling that there's a lot of people that i don't want to meet. For example, why would I want the social proof of ditzy girls? Wouldn't that just attract more ditzy girls that i find to be annoying or sloppy? This might be AA because I know they're probably cooler people than I give them credit for but something about people will put me off to them. Any advice or words of wisdom for me? All would be appreciated. Thanks!

The main thing about being a PUA is having sex with as many girls as you can.
It sounds cruel but its not, and thats really what being a PUA is about, so it dosent really matter if there ditsy smart or stupid, if there hot, then thats all the reason you need to open them

Also its easy to think you could get a girl when you cant, so be carful that you dont think you could open or get that girl its just that you dont want to, thats a trap that alot of us fall into, including me

If you need practice then go for it, if there a 7+ then open them, whats the worst that can happen

While new to the game its good to open as many sets as you can, to get a feel for it and help get rid of some of your social fears, approach anxiety and such and get more comfortable talking to girls.

Once your more experienced and you have slept with a couple of girls, then you can start thinking, i dont have a good chance of having sex with that girl, so im not going to try, and just opening sets that are lilky to succeed. But even then, talking to girls is fun, and even if you get rejected theres a certain pride in knowing that unlike alot other guys, you had the balls to talk to a random girl and try to have sex with her

The bolded points are untrue.

Being a PUA is NOT about banging as many chicks as possible.

Also, a real PUA would NOT allow himself to believe that any girl was too good for him.

OP, think deeply about your judgemental attitude, then just approach. You should not have a mindset that keeps you from approaching women because you think they're too "ditzy". You don't know how cool they are until you approach them...

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"Simple. Escalate, if she's into you, she will escalate with you, if not, you will know soon enough." - SexAddict911

I most respectfully disagree with your view most PUAs become PUAs because women didint give a damn about the "nice guys" we used to be, or the personality we had to offer. So we were rejected, and as a result we became PUAs to learn game and make women actually give a shit about us.

Im heartless, its not because i was born without a heart, just that women have long since taken it from me

Were called "pick up" artist for a reason, its about having sex with girls, and having fun, and having girls chase us. When it comes down to it, thats what all the MPUAs teach and it comes down to

Total bullshit. PUA is about getting your foot in the door and having a chance. You have a choice to be a womanizer or a woman lover at that point.

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"Simple. Escalate, if she's into you, she will escalate with you, if not, you will know soon enough." - SexAddict911

Yeah I think being a PUA is more about being able to get girls than just having them or as many as you can

although that's a debate for another thread

someone asked for adivce on their sticking point

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those who say it can't be done should get the fuck out the way of those doing it