So I can open, have for a while. Usually opinion or some other opener. Then usually can get a conversation going but I haven't been able to get a date for over a month. Before that I haven't gotten a date for over a year. Lately it has become harder for me to even get a conversation going, I feel like I am going backwards in the game. I don't like making excuses but a bunch of friends (not really being good friends right now) keep flaking too and it is messing with my confidence. I score numbers occasionally but she always flakes. My also date flaked on me. So I would say that is my sticking point. Any advice on how to close without her flaking? How do I prevent flaking in general? Any help would be appreciated.

one point i think is you might be making your self too available. when you make your self too available then it devalues you. to prevent flakes this has to be a priority in your game. remember your inviting her into your world your not trying to go into hers. so a couple things i do. one is i never ask to go on a "date" this puts a tag on it and pressure of kissing,sex, relationship, etc... that is not needed. i use terms like hangout and kick it. an example would be:(you)"hey i was going to so and so place. if you wanted to come it probly wouldnt be a problem." now this is inviting her into your world but if she says no it has no effect on you. because your just inviting her to do something you were going to do with or without her if she says yes well then go to first encounter game where you take waht ever you talked about the first time back to the table(i recommend NO cleshay date activitys dinner, movies, etc....) if she does say no dont take it all on yourself girls really do have thing to do and sometimes are busy but with inviting them into your world when they do say no it leaves it open to for maybe another time ( i recommend if they say no dont text them back till your done with what you went and did least 4 to 6 hours text " sorry i left for so and so place before i got your text and it was so loud there or my phone was on silent." this will show her you run the show in your life and arent going to wait on her maybe even throw in how much fun u had at so and so place. well hope this helps and keep your confidence if you did it once you can do it again just dont be needy let it happend naturally dont push. hit back if somethings not clear- alphaleader over and out

Thanks for the advice.