Heyy Guys:)
I'm a teenager and I got introduced into the PUA-World by a Friend of mine about a month ago. I haven't been sagging a lot, but i always have the same Sticking Point: let's Just be friends....
You know i'm the good guy, who's usually listening to you when you have problems, who's helping you.... and so when i meet a girl i fall in the "good friend" box...
does anyone of you guys have a solution for me?

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Congrats on getting in the game early...I wasn't introduced until well into my freshman year of college and wish I was earlier (would have saved alot of heartache in high school lol). I won't go into details since there's literally tons of posts out there on this topic but the cliffnotes version is this:
Chics generally put guys into two categories: 1) nice guy/friend and 2) prospective guy to sleep with/have relationship with/etc.

You basically need to put together a combo of work on your inner and outer game.
Outer game is basically your: look, lines, convo topics, places you like to go etc...

Inner game in this case is where your problem is stemming from.
To use an analogy, you need to be more of a "jerk" and this does not be mean; just be more of a challenge to women, have fun with them, don't be concerned with EVERY single woman you meet, just talk to as many as possible and keep your eyes peeled for good prospects out of those. Work on making your presence to women valuable. The attitude is to basically treat them like a bratty little sister lol. I won't go on any further since there's a lot more on this, but your particular sticking point is stemming from inner game. I would start there until you get it handled and then work your way from there.
-A

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The MM is most effective when modded to match your life. -Aprovato

When I say cute to a guy it can mean one of two things and it depends on how I say it, as to which one I am meaning.

1. "Your soo cute".......this is said in a pitiful way as if to say "Naww look at the puppy" - All this means you have displayed a cute quality or you are looked at as nothing more than a cute puppy...

2. "Your cute"....This implies a compliment and means - You are attractive to me!

I used to find it easier to say to a guy that I liked "your cute" as apposed to"Your hot" and said it quite often.....However I don't say this anymore for this exact reason....A male acquaintance of mine called me on the same confusion of the word 'cute' and its meaning when applied to him.

I now use very different techniques to stroke a males ego.

It should be fairly easy to gauge which term she is implying ...by the sounds of it ....if she is saying it often ....It's her way of calling you attractive to her!


Try a saliva test.

Just have fun with it. You don't care if this girl realizes how awesome you are, because YOU know how awesome you are.

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Thank you a lot guys!! I m gonna do what aprovato said and work on my inner game! I hope that is gonna help me!