Hey guys,

My name is Amo and I live in Birmingham, England.

I've had problems all my life, at home (my mother died early), with self-esteem, self-confidence, my family put me down and I did not have a good time at school. I was confused on what to do as a career, so after I left school, I did some courses which did not appeal to me and hence I've got a late education where I had to take qualifications again and start university at 22. However, I've sorted out my issues.

My problem is I want to attract an educated girl around the ages of 19-22, and inevitably they will already be into their second or last year at uni. In contrast I will be in my first year where most people in the UK are finishing their degrees around my age!

I decided to go to university to be well-educated as this was one of my life's ambitions. My life purpose is to help people and I'm looking to write self-improvement books and start an empowerement business, which I'm planning to do now.

So my question is, how can I attract an educated girl, who will be better educated than me? I am very insecure about my education.

I've read tons of pua stuff and sub-topics like body-lanuage, fashion etc.

Feedback will be very much appreciated,

Amo

What else do you have going for you?

Everyone is lacking in some regard. It's not like I have a million dollar nor a PhD, but I'm not insecure about those things because I'm very confident about other areas of my life. What are you good at?

From what I understand

You hadn't luck in life but you've sort it out.
You self-raised yourself
You are going to university because you understand its importance itself
You are self improving
You are independent

Also.... please do not overrate girls and don't consider them well educated just because they were forced by family to go to university and they passed more courses than you. It is a non-factor.

Brummie!

You have no need to worry at all! Not a jot!

I think this is all in your head! I am 24 and studying a degree whilst working! The fact that you are studying a degree and trying to better yourself is all that is needed.

Don't look at these girls as being better than you, you are their equal or their superior! You have life experience and have overcome issues which you can use to spur you on.

Take stock, you have done lots of courses and are now completing your degree. You have a great future and any girl would be lucky to have you!

Tell yourself that everyday and believe it!

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It's all about confidence. As far as i'm concerned, it's not a problem to go to uni a bit later, as you have. It's not like you failed a year in school and had to retake it (which is pretty much looked at badly). Maybe it's just me but it really doesn't matter that you're getting a later education. For example, if you're very insecure concerning this, then think about it this way: lots of people are taking a year gap before or during uni to sort things/thoughts out. Lots of people are taking a year to work and pay off their loan. It's not a must to go to school, then uni, then work in a one-two-three step with no variations.

The important thing is, you're getting education and should feel proud of it. And, as you're in the college, you get lots of partys to meet smart people anyways.

And yeah, think about the areas where you feel strong and secure and translate that to your self-confidence. You're already doing good with you're life by getting by and achieving some of your life-goals. Good luck.

You're suffering from a self-limiting belief. (I know, I've had them in the past). In the long term, you need to eliminate the insecurity you are having about lacking a year of education/being less educated than the females you are looking for. You do this ultimately by refrasing your internal dialogue to being positive about it/and to yourself. Instead of thinking you are lacking in education, realize that you may have more life experience due to your background than the people (women) you are considering more educated than you. Who's to say that some, though very well educated, might not have the rest of their life as well together as you do? This gives you a chance to still be the one qualifying the woman you are targeting, which is essentially the position you want to be in when presenting your "best self" (as Style puts it) to a prospective female.

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