hey guys, i am a freasher in an university, and i went to a party today, at the begining , i was reli hyper and talking to everyone, then i went on the dance floor, i saw some gals getting with some guys, and i thought i needa do something about it(like getting with someone) or i am gonna look like a social retard that doesnt get any girls, so i went up to one girl on the dance floor, and she was grinding on me, and i tried to get with her after a couple minutes, but she turned her face around, so i went up to another girl and dance wif her, she gave me some IOIs, and i put her hands around me shoulder and tried to get a bit closer, but she said ''i needa go see my friends by myself, c you later'', then she went off. And after that i was a bit depressed and i couldnt do anything about it. what do u guys do if u got rejected?? whats else would u do to get with gals in an university party?? and wt have i done wrong??is it because there wasnt enough attraction???

[quote="wil master"]hey guys, i am a freasher in an university, and i went to a party today, at the begining , i was reli hyper and talking to everyone, then i went on the dance floor, i saw some gals getting with some guys, and i thought i needa do something about it(like getting with someone) or i am gonna look like a social retard that doesnt get any girls, so i went up to one girl on the dance floor, and she was grinding on me, and i tried to get with her after a couple minutes, but she turned her face around, so i went up to another girl and dance wif her, she gave me some IOIs, and i put her hands around me shoulder and tried to get a bit closer, but she said ''i needa go see my friends by myself, c you later'', then she went off. And after that i was a bit depressed and i couldnt do anything about it. what do u guys do if u got rejected?? whats else would u do to get with gals in an university party?? and wt have i done wrong??is it because there wasnt enough attraction???[/quote]

What did U say to these girls while you danced? If they're dancing with U and know nothing about U their only attraction is physical. Ur options are to either lure her away to isolate her or generate comfort during the dance floor.

When it comes to rejection never focus on the situation as a failure. Look at it as a learning event to avoid in the future. The more U come across the more U'll know to avoid and Ur game will be come better with every approach. So move on to the next girl regardless how much U liked the last one. Chances are she'll forget U an hour later & ur still upset about rejection to even focus.