Hey guys, I really need help on my INNER game, i feel that my outer is game with girls is good, like my body language, tonality kino etc is fine.

However i need help with issues on my Inner game, like i feel that i don't want to approach because i feel she may be hotter than me or I'm not good enough and I freak out... Like before the game I use to be really really shy in high school, and only becoming more social in college.

Like I'm pretty good looking, girls calling me cute, i dress pretty well but i feel that I'm just not good enough for girls i talk to and thats REALLY fucking up my game when i approach girls. I feel that I'm being judged for what I look like and never feel that girls should be chasing me or like I'm the prize...and thats really hurting my confidence and self esteem.

I really appreciate if you guys can give me some advice or even recommened me some videos to watch to fix my inner game and self confidence.

Thanks guys!!

Hey man, dont look at it like they are hotter then you. Look at it like an opportunity to meet a hot girl.

You have two choices;

Approach, take a chance, and who knows where it can go from there

Or

Don't approach and accept failure from the get go and deal with regret

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When you go for the aproach think of multiple situations when you do feel YOU are the KING , Like: Im better creating music then other, or maybe im more good looking then most of my pals. Try put yourself in a state of mind where you feel high valued , where you are the king on what you do, Try think of just 1 thing and keep that feeling unconsciously in your mind and bring it up everytime you feel uncomfortable. This is a great way to erase all the anexitys and SP:s ,

Hope my informatin was helpful and Good luck.

Cheers from sweden!!

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1) if the girl is better looking than you your confidence should go up because that means that you are a man with game and that is proof

but as a personal confidence booster everyday when i feel insecure of unconfident i look in the mirror and tell myself outloud good things about myself. For example, i might say i'm the shit and i love myself or i might look at myself and name off accomplishments that i have done.

(note) i only do this in the mirror when i'm alone because no one likes a brag
but remember your the man , if you werent all the girls that you have pulled would be talking to someone else

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