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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.
It is
NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.
A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
IT IS AGAINST THIS BOARD'S RULES TO POST THREADS ABOUT JUST ONE GIRL
If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.
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| D Diesel | PostPosted: Wed Oct 05, 2011 7:17 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Sep 29, 2011 4:37 am Posts: 7 | | The best part of my career is that I spend a lot of time traveling. I have worked this into my game by maintaining a couple LDRs in several cities.
So my usual routine is to let them know I am coming into town, finish up any business on Friday, and stay through the weekend with the LDR.
Now its been repeated often enough that face to face contact is extremely important, and I know that no matter what happens, it's these in-person week ends that define the relationship.
What I am looking for is advice on 3 separate areas.
1. Prepping her for my arrival. Making her desperate to see me.
2. Being at my best throughout the 2 - 3 days. Anyone can maintain for a few minutes in a bar, but lasting through the weekend can be rough.
3. Leaving her with the desire for next time.
I have managed to maintain so far. But in my eyes I see a HUGE difference between maintaining and excelling.
Any comments are greatly appreciated
Thanks
Diesel
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| ZiggyH | PostPosted: Wed Oct 05, 2011 10:04 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Oct 03, 2011 8:22 am Posts: 25 Location: Sydney | | If you are maintaining I will say stick to what works. Dont feel this is a performance because you will exhaust yourself and drain your ability to remain relaxed and focused
once in a while let them know you have a surprise for them
cut the weekend short sometimes because you have important things in your life that must be done but dont be specific about them and dont answer or change the subject if they suggest your going to see another girl. if you do this then once in a while do something special for them so you remain unpredictable
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| Samurai209 | PostPosted: Wed Oct 05, 2011 10:18 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Oct 30, 2010 9:00 am Posts: 62 Location: Sydney | | Exactly right, your not going to be able to maintain an act for a whole 2 or 3 days. This is where your true self comes through. Entertain yourself, play games, do stupid stuff, crack jokes. Chances are if you bring her along for the ride, and your having a good time, so will she. Its all about frame.
As for the making her excited with anticipation, a flirtacious text a few days before hand can get things flowing. But as for the leaving her wanting more? Thats all down to your performance my man.
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| ZiggyH | PostPosted: Thu Oct 06, 2011 9:26 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Oct 03, 2011 8:22 am Posts: 25 Location: Sydney | | i agree mate. stick to the simpple stuff so she feels comfortable enjoying your company and doesn't feel she needs to compete
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