Any tips appreciated. This has been an issue off and on now for about 5 years.

So I got this ongoing issue where I will eject from a set. If its going pretty well I will take the momentum boost and eject. If I sense things going a bit downhill or it starts to feel awkward or someone interrupts the set or the girl is cool with me there but turns to talk with friend that I failed to engage. I eject.

I plan to start a no eject challenge where I do not eject for at least 3 sets. I think I do it from years of habit where I use to frequent smaller venues where I can re open later and would do it to hold my value. The venues are large now though and chances of running into the same girl twice is small.

Its usually at the point where I got a weak hook (although I do it with strong hooks too). The strong hooks I know I should just go for escalation or to mini isolate/move. The weaker hooks its not yet solid to go for a move. I need something in my head to fall back on as an alternative to ejecting that will lock in the interaction for me and screen it one way or another. I want to be productive and not waste time but I don't want to sell myself short or leave a set where I can be getting further.

Between 10pm - 12 midnight, you should kino the girls straight away, high five or hand shake, conversation, more kino, then escalate/isolate if you can get away with it. It's unlikely that the girl will comply to an isolated kiss so early in the night before she's had much to drink but it happens often enough for you to always attempt it with every girl. This also makes it clear to the girl that you like her. For dancefloor game, there shouldn't be any conversation, you should be using pure eye contact, kino and sexual dancing to escalate.

Your interactions will ebb and flow. I have a wing who has the same problem. Your sets are going well and you don't want to "ruin" the good mood and friendly conversation, right? Wrong. This is the quickest way to get friend zoned. You need to develop a killer instinct. It's either on or it's not. You need to push interactions until she either kisses you or rejects you. If you're not getting any rejections or kisses, you're doing it wrong. You're gonna lose anyway if you eject early, so you might as well risk losing by escalating further and try to get her emotionally invested in you. If it's early in the night, you need to go into the set and don't let yourself leave without one of the following: 1) a rejection 2) a phone number or 3) a kiss. If you've got the kiss you should stay in set and either push for a ONS or number close for a Day 2.