Hi,

I had a few flirts with a girl who is working at the grocery store.
A few days ago we surpisingly matched on tinder, and texting a bit since then.

Yesterday I asked her out for a drink and her response was "

Yes that sound nice!..I'm quite busy for a few weeks, but maybe we can meet up at "localbar" after that, Shirley is a local there so she could introduce me as well!

Shirley is a girl I know who also works at the grocerystore and a regular visitor of "localbar"


from what I read : Yes perhaps i would like to out in the future, I don't know you very well, and i need a backup.

Should I go along?

Good day my friend.

That's an interesting conundrum. I used to fall into that trap all the time until I realized I only did so because I lacked the balls to stand up for myself.

Dig deeper my friend! Always go deep. Find the root of the problem and fix it, then the surface will take care of itself.

Are you a man of purpose? If not, why? What can you do to be a man of purpose? If you are, good, because it means you have very little time to waste. All men of purpose are decisive and firm in their desires.

What am I getting at? There's no right or wrong answer my friend, only how you feel. Sometimes I'm in the mood to be around beautiful women, so I call up 5 or 6 girlfriends and pick a restaurant and go out for food and drinks. Just me and beauties. Other times, I want to be alone with a girl, so I call one up and tell her she's mine for the night.

What do you want? This is fundamental to your life. What do you want out of life? What do you want to accomplish? What sort of man do you want to be? What kind of women do you want in your life and what kind of experiences do you hope to live with them?

Basically: You want to hang with her friends, do so. You dont? Tell her "We're meeting at such and such, you and me. This time I choose, next time you choose. See you then". Just dont be that guy who compromises because he is afraid to man up. She won't respect you then and a woman can NEVER be attracted to a man she does not respect.

Love
Mack

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