So here's my situation. I notice that when I talk to girls, I am good at building rapport, alright at breaking it and then building it up again, but I cannot go sexual for some reason.

I'm afraid to kino more, or say stuff sexual more to lead the conversation to a more sexual place. This may be a onitis situation where I am making every girl "the one" so I am afraid, or it might just be my mindset or how I talk to them.

Guys, I really need to fix this aspect of my game, and I would be so thankful to anyone who can give me advice on how to fix this problem.

Thanks alot puas.

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What i do is set up a sexual frame right of the bat. Going for lines like ' you look like a bad girl ] or bad girl good girl routine [in the first min or 2]
They wont forget what you said, which is awesome because it makes you stand out from the other guys. and shows confidence and it was a sexual-ish line.

if you make it clear from the bat that you are a sexual being it will be much easier to escalate because it makes things a lot less awkward.

Try to find ways so it isnt awkward for any of the 2

I had this problem, too. Here's a really easy way to do it. Once you've got some good comfort going and the conversation is on a high note, drop a Juggler-style SOI, pause for half a second to let it sink in, then quickly change the subject. You really don't want her to respond to that statement verbally, unless she has a really quick response, but you don't want to linger on it at all. In fact, don't even acknowledge if she does respond, just keep on talking about what you were talking about before.

Here's an example:
You: Do you play an instrument?
Her: Yeah, the sitar and the mandolin.
You: I find musician girls really sexy..How many scales do you know?
Her: I've got more scales than a chinese dragon.

You get the idea. The important thing to note is that it's a ".." after the SOI, not a "..."
You can do this with anything about her that is unique and because you change the subject before she responds, you can gauge her response without any actual rejection. You'll be able to tell if she likes you or not after that.

Wow, thanks alot both of you guys, this really helped. I will definitely use all this stuff!

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