Yesterday at around 5:30pm I opened a 1 set of a 10 super hot model at the college cafeteria. We chatted for about 15 minutes and 25 in general cuz we were eating and not talking. Everything went fine, I got her # txted her the following morning (earlier today at 7am when I woke up) "Good Morning White Girl" you know I'm also white I just joked with her. No response so I gave her a call about an hour ago (7:30pm) 2nd and last attempt so no response. Next thing you know I heard my txt msg sound and it was her name saying about an essay long msg starting with" yo leave my girl alone you creep" he also mentioned that he'll call the police and show up at my job (i told her where i work in the set) or my house and he was insulting me with a 1000 words. he or she will go to hell. all i tried is to make myself happy without even knowing that she wasn't available and what do i get for this

oh and she asked me for my name, where i was from, my age and all the ioi questions and she WAS giggling (not a lot though but she was) so that's the scary part

and the consistent issue is that i get out of 50 girls (literally) 50 flakes

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Tell him to suck your dick, and that he can meet you the next time you're working. If some dude actually shows up, then call the cops, lol.

Seriously though, you might have just chatted up a girl with an abusive boyfriend that was looking to get away from him. It's not worth the risk if this is true, so just move on.

I'm curious as to what you consider a flake, share your definition, and tell us a little bit about the circumstances for 3 out of the 50. I reckon you're losing girls by being overeager. It's a little odd to text a girl first thing in the morning.

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good one. now i know. my problem is cold approaches. i can hold the set and get the number 9 out of 10 times its just 0 out of 9 they show up on my get together. I DON'T HAVE TROUBLE WITH MEETING GIRLS THRU FRIENDS I just don't seem to have success in picking up random women.

I think I have more trouble with speaking skills not as much as non verbal skills.
I have a Russian accent that every girl said she finds it sexy and I believe them. It's just sometimes my speech gives up on me cuz i run out of things to say. (my english is solid though).

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a few ideas for you man,

-be more honest for why you are approaching, right away from that start let them know it is a romantic interest, that way girls that are not interested/want to waste time, just get weeded out, you get a quick rejection and can move onto other girls, rather then wasting your time and getting a rejection that comes way later rather then sooner (the flake), start by telling them you approached them because you found them attractive and wanted to meet them (or some variation)

-instead of asking for numbers, ask for dates, drop an excuse for why you have to leave and give a compliment before you lay it out, the more specific you are with the date the better, it will weed out the interested girls from the wastes of time, and don't do that YOU MUST COME, alpha shit, just say, you seem really cool, I'D love to take you out to this great blah blah blah place on Xday, or, you're really interesting to talk to, I can't believe I met you at Xplace so randomly like this, I'd love to see you again on Xday again, then if she agrees, get her number, and continue talking to her, don't run off victorious like a dog who just got his bone, stay there talking to her for a few minutes after you got the number, then remind her of your excuse for why you have to go, then say I'll text/call you before Xday (what ever you are going to do, text or call)

-don't be needy and desparate, you can text her right away after you get the number just to carry the momentum and continue the conversation over text if you want to get to know her a bit better, but really, not that needed if you spent enough time talking to her and it seemed solid that she was interested in a date, and she understands the romantic context to the meetup, just don't be a weirdo, don't be a stalker, if a girl does not answer a text, give it at the very least, 24 hours before you send a second one, if she flakes she flakes, give her 3 chances after getting her number to go one a date, after that, put her on the backburner as a girl you text to practise with and don't invite her out very often, go approach new girls and try for dates,

-do more approaching, numbers from girls who were not interested don't mean very much (girls will often give out their numbers to anyone), kiss closing off the approach doesn't mean to much either, what matters is how interested in you she is, and how much a connection you formed, what did you do that will leave an impression in her mind, and how much does she like you, you want her to remember you, just try to get her to talk about herself and get to know her, find out some interesting things about her, if you want her to ''like you'' or be ''emotionally attracted'', just bring some fun to her and add value to the conversation (bring some element to the conversation that causes positive emotions), the less she has to work at bringing something to the conversation the more she will be willing to invest (also how physically attractive she finds you, will effect this)

don't give up, try to chill out a bit more, don't call girls first thing in the mourning, don't harass them to come out with you, just let it be, it is easier to go cold approach another girl then try to pressure a girl into doing anything, it won't work like that, if she is showing dis-interest, back off more, then just chat them up a bit more, then try again later, 3 flakes in a row is a good sign she is waste of time, and should only be used for practise

basically there are a few things during a daytime cold approach you want to establish
-you have a romantic interest in her and she is aware of this
-you want to find out a few things about her that make her worth going on a date with, and let her know that you like those things about her
-you want to make sure she doesn't possess qualities you don't want in a girl (she isn't crazy or a stalker etc.)
-confirm logistics

when you have those things, there is no reason to linger in set anymore, unless you plan to try and make out with her, and try to get her back to your house,

also, try to avoid talking about yourself if you can help it, it's better to get her investing, then to invest yourself, don't just randomly dhv unless there is a purpose behind it (it relates to something or serves a purpose in the set, beyond ''just doing it, to do it'', make sure it is related to a thread or is going to server a purpose)


GOOD LUCK

Don't even let the text phase you man. It sounds to me like you're dealing with a girl who has a very insecure and jealous boyfriend. If she never mentioned anything about a boyfriend, then it's very likely that she was interested in you. Heck, we don't even know if actually came from a real boyfriend (coulda been her, a family member, or a friend pretending to be a bf). One thing I will say though is the 7 AM text can come off as a little strange, especially if you two have just met. Calling later that same day made you come off as needy too. Hold off on texting until at least 10 AM, that's when most people are up and awake.

Next time you see her, just pretend like nothing ever happened and continue to game her. Don't even mention the text. If she likes you and brings it up, she will most likely apologize for her boyfriend's behavior. You can brush it off by joking about it, saying something like, "Yeah... thats ok. He sounds like a really charming boyfriend." Whenever I come across girls with abusive boyfriends I use lines like that a lot and it gets a good response, then we just continue on as if nothing ever happened.

So when you see her, gauge her reaction. If she seems distant, you may have scared her from the wayyy early text or because she's afraid of what her boyfriend may do. If thats the case, then you should keep your distance as well. But if she remains receptive to your advances, then game on brother.

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I would say it is very unlikely to have been a guy, based on the fact it was a long text message. the average guy, especially the knucklehead, can barely string a sentence together the best of times , and certainly would not Write a very long text message. and if on the outside chance that was a guy and he had any balls and all, he would have simply just run you up and told you he was going to punch you in the face. More likely a younger sister with a big mouth and attitude.

i forgot about this girl. i just don't feel like opening anymore and i know its a wrong state of mind.

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That's an interesting gambit, what was your thinking behind that?

My personal feeling is that too much humour, and especially wacky or off-the-wall humour, can tend to alienate women.

Tell him to keep his woman on a leash. That guy seems kinda clingy and needy.