alright so i was talking to this girl on the phone that i like today(i told her i was into her) n i said what are your intentions of us n she said well i just got out of a long relationship so im not looking to date so then i asked if she was friendzoneing me n she said no its a whatever-thing n we will see where it goes n let me add in that before this phone call i went on a double date with her n before that her friend told me she was into me but after that double shit with me n her got weird (hence the phone call conversation). what should i do since my intentions are to date this chick ?

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Invite her out, flirt with her (use strong eye contact), touch her a lot and then make out with her. It's not rocket science. Furthermore, don't talk about it beforehand. Asking a girl what her intentions are is way too close to a "let's define the relationship" conversation. Guys should never start those types of conversations. That's the girl's job.

Just my 2 cents.

-Wolf

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i already invited her out but she said she already had other plans...so i wont be inviting her out again n when we hang out both of us use strong eye contact also i was going to kiss her but before i did i told her friend that i was going to kiss her n she said NOO DON'T DO IT, IT WILL SCARE HER AWAY. TRUST ME IM HER BEST FRIEND...so i didnt try to kiss her after that

I would try to avoid asking a girl what she is looking for, and I would REALLY avoid asking a girl if she is friendzoning you... and I would also avoid talking to her friend about this, you do know her friend is going and telling her everything right...?

ya i messed up but now shes asking my friend what my views are lol

Never ask a girl's best friend for advice... I can almost guarantee you that she told your girl that you wanted to kiss her. And you know what, if you feel like there's been chemistry and if you get a perfect opportunity to go for a kiss, you should go for it.

You already did more than most guys by telling her how you feel and what you want. I would have said it in a different way but at least you were brave and true to your feelings. And she even said "let's see where it goes"... if there was no interest she would say something like "i only see you as a friend" or give you some other bullshit. So I think you have a really good shot!

My advice is be positive, don't over think a situation or show her that you are upset for her not hanging out w/ you or something similar.. that shows weakness. Always keep the upper hand, don't seem needy or pushy. Be indifferent but also let her feel that you like hanging out with her, show her confidence, and continue to be playful and flirty. Next time you wanna hang out, make a nice/fun plan and tell her your're gonna pick her up to hangout, don't even ask. Girls like these things, and if you keep earning points with her here and there I think you will get her for sure. Good luck!

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