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So, as I grew up, I too watched love movies. And became in love with beauty and all that. As I failed and failed of getting the girls of my dreams, I slowly woke up and realized that life is the total opposite, I slowly crafted myself, and became that witty bad boy, who has an edge, and usually gets the girl. My biggest strength was always the fact that I just stopped loving girls. Or feeling much for them. But in 2010 I met a girl online, lived in my city. We texted back and forth, I thought nothing of it. She got her boyfriend 2 months after I started talking to her. We still talked, I didn't think much of it. I knew she was pretty. Until this year, I moved back to where she is, (I used to live there) I met her, and now we still text. But I developed feelings for her, and It's making it hard for me to stay focused. How can I turn off my feelings? what can I do? I haven't felt nervous, or waiting for a text for a girl like this in a long time. And for those who want to know, there is a minor attraction between us, but I'm not over thinking it. Whether she likes me or not, I could pottentially not only lose her as someone I could be with, and even a friend if I don't learn to control my feelings. What can I do to stop? I even saw a picture of her kissing her boyfriend and I got really mad, and even barely texted her. I quickly stopped when I realized it...so yeah..
There is a cure
. Stop texting. Next time she text, reply: "I'm busy, I'll answer later" . Normally you don't have to answer at all but since you have been texting for years, that would be weird. Then later, you call her and say you want to grab a coffe with her to catch up. If she says no to that, she is retarded..
There's a guy named Wolfwood on this forum, he has some excellent points on this. Texting fulfills the girl and gives a man nothing. Meet her in real life
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