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Your frame is too outcome dependent. If you can't do pickup and you only have one option, then you are going to be in a monogamous relationship whether you like it or not. Furthermore, it is unlikely that a girl from a traditional background is going to be okay with a friends with benefits relationship. She may go along with it for a few weeks (to see if she can change you), but not a year and a half.

There are other issues as well. If you are new to pickup / relationship game, then you are going to have a difficult time maintaining a strong frame for a friends with benefits relationships. Here are the community accepted rules for maintaining a long-term friends with benefits relationship ( http://puarticles.blogspot.com/2008/01/ ... rules.html ). One of them is to only see the other person once a week (twice at the most). It doesn't sound like that's going to be an option for you.

Your situation is not ideal.

-Wolf

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crap. gf will do then. So got any pointers on what to do so that she doesnt become or sucidal etc. when i try to flunk out??

If traditional eastern girls are anything similar to middle eastern girls then there is one method of sarging that will work. Since I know a lot of middle eastern girls, Iv'e sarged my fair share. One of my friends is an expert at sarging them. This is the advice he gave me

Basically if the girl see's you as a guy that can be her husband she will instantly be after you. This takes characteristics of Alphaness, confidence, humor and being sweet to them. ~He is 100% pure natural pua.. doesn't even know about this site

Wolf is right your gonna have to get in a relationship with her if you are going to want to bang her.

However regarding the middle eastern thing. It works. Sad thing is unless the girl is a real slut you are gonna have to be in a relationship with them before you can sleep with them.
I know it's not much but take it for what it is

~Mr.Confident

Why do you assume she would become suicidal? I'm sure she'll manage to get over you once the relationship is over. That's just part of life; sometimes relationships end. Just don't lie to her or be a dick about it.

-Wolf

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I think she might become suicidal is cuz people esp. girls are very deluded here and believe in ideal love, which we know doesn't exist. I assumed shattering of her dreams of marrying me might be too much for her. But i'll trust you.
So should I tell her early on not to have too much expectations or reveal later that there is nothing more than physical attraction between us and i'm not gonna marry anyway (thats the truth. i'm westernized while most people here are not.)

I disagree. I think ideal love does exist. I also think you should't plan on hurting her by fucking her for a while then leaving. It's unmanly to take advantage of a women like that. Be honest with them and see what happens, try to get into logistics and sarge the way you want. Don't bag the girls with lies.

That's all i got to say

~Mr.Confident

I'm not going to lie (thats just wrong), thats why i'm asking you when and how should i tell her that the relationship might not live beyond college.