I can't seem to get shit tests right, if any of you have read my field report of my first set, you'll see a cock blocker who screws things up for me, even though i played the set right.

anyway the set is in school and i meet occasionally with the girls i opened, what happened was this cock blocker told me:
"You know you should shave your mustache and get a haircut." (even though i was wearing a winter hat so i got confused)
me:"My mustache? No its awesome, hah you should look at your hair." i said it while smiling and acting cool. (my mustache isn't like the ones porn stars have, its not dense and it doesnt make me look bad, remember im only 15, i dont have a fully grown mustache)

so after a while they left, so i think that what she said was a shit test and i did it wrong, any opinions?

I find that after a girl is saying something about my hair/outlook/whatever the best thing to do is not give a shit. I use to be like you and if she said something bout my hair i'd strike back. But that's not going to lead to anything but argument. Even if u're saying it in a playful way it stills shows that u're lacking confidence.

Next time when a girl is giving you a "shit test" or says something about ur outlook just say "ok" smile and continue. Treat these like you treat your little sister. If your 6 years old little sister says to you "Hey Voyrin you need a haircut". You'd smile and say "haha that's cute".

That's eye opening man, thanks! If i act as if it's nothing, it becomes nothing... that line should be put in a book or smthn again thanks mate... now to recover from the shit test !!

Shit test can't even enter your reality.

You can:
1. Ignore and move on. Don't show change in behavior, not even a flinch.
2. take it to the absurd
3. have a clever comeback to it

okay she commented on your hair and you were wearing a hat so that means she's been checking you out prior to that. Now when I get shit-tests like that, I neg!! That's just my method to handle those situations,for instance :
She :"You know you should shave your mustache and get a haircut."
Me :"Uhm..Why would I wanna do that? (confused look)
Whatever stupid reason she gives,you NEG her!!
or
You are totally irresponsive to her comment.. and ignore it,by making a comment on what she's wearing (diverting Attention)
That's just me!!

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