alright guys... Here goes the sticking points

I have no problem with approaching set(s) I do however have problems building comfort or rapport Building attachtion, granted I do get IOIs on occasion but I sometimes lack or feel rushed in going through with the phase shifting or being able to isolate targets. I know this may sound pretty general, I find that sometimes I get AMOGed by Friends in my group after I have approached sets which is frustrating. I find myself falling into the Friend Zone way tooo much... Any help or suggetions and questions to clear this up so you can better help me solve this problem is always welcome Thanks in advance!