Hey guys! hoping you can help me out with this one. Usually if im out at a club or just in general shopping somewhere and i see an attractive girl, im normally no good at the initial opening of a conversation or breaking into conversation with a random girl. I can usually make a girl laugh if i know them or keep a conversation going if i know the person, but the random factor i struggle with.

I dont consider myself to have the best confidence out hence, why i find it a bit hard to deal with approaching ladies and such, but im just wondering if you guys can give me any techniques or tips to breaking down that barrier i have subconsciously imposed.


PRIME EXAMPLE: the course im doing at the moment the girls seclude theirselves from the guys and theres one girl i find attractive but she always hides amongst the girls. Every lunch time they dissappear to who know's where to have lunch and im trying to find an "in" to find out where and possibly grab lunch with her on her own. I was thinking girls in a group would be harder to seperate or hang out with, but im just wondering your thoughts....

Also i feel like i can keep a conversation flowing pretty well, but im not sure if im asking the right questions that reflect my inner intentions when speaking to a girl that i find attractive :/ any suggestions?

Hopefully i havent pushed too much into this conversation and you guys can help me!

thanks in advance

Chris

If she is in a group of girls just try to chat with any of them you know. Normally they will stand there for a few mins/15-30 mins so you'll have a chance to talk and/or even ask hey, where are you girls going for lunch?
place X

Aah that is a great place, I really like the X there, let me come along..

And you are in.

thanks bro! thats smart as hell! haha! much respect! the next thing id need to work around to, is the "asking for the number" part haha

That shouldn't be to hard either.. but it is much smarter not to do direct pick up's if you don't just want to f-close and move on. If you see potential, you should get in contact but less direct (that way the girl will feel more confy)

For example, you went to grab a bit ect.. you should talk to her but don't get friendzoned (aka don't hang out to much/be desperate/show to much intrested/...)
Just be general cool. Things you can talk about are like what party you/she... is going this weekend and so on.
And the end of the lunchbreak you say something like, see you there..
So you go to that party with your friends and just bum into her overthere. (without texting)
...

great advice dude! thanks!